We have 50/50 of SS. When BM pick him up from here she gets here 20 minutes early.
When this first happened SS told us be didn't want to go out there until 5, the next time we picked him up he said he got in so much trouble for "being rude and making me wait outside your dada house for 20 minutes". He now runs outside as soon as he sees BM pull up to avoid getting in trouble. DH emailed BM saying "just a reminder, your pick up time is 5, not 4:40, as mine is 8am, not 7:40am, please adhere to CO, thanks". She proceeds to pick up SS so early. This may not be a big deal to some of you, but it is annoying that SS gets so nervous and feels the needs to run outside and becomes a nervous wreck when he sees her car. Anyone else have this issue? How did you address it?