WHAT TO DO with Bio Mom selling the clothes we buy for kids?
I know this maybe a demon everyone fears or deals with. But to explain my scenario, kids are with DH while Bio Mom gets visitation. She is highly known for selling the kids clothes and this stopped when we stopped buying them name brand clothes. I felt this year they shouldn't have to suffer since their mother cant stop selling. Since of their age however, which is 14 and 17, I have left up to them to keep track of their own clothes if they wear clothes over there and leave them then it is their responsibility to bring back or they take the chance of it being possibly sold at a consignment store. They understood only cause they knew their mother did that and they are the ones to find that she did that and told us about it. So they are taking the risk cause they are old enough. Was I wrong to put this responsibility on them? We have had come to Jesus meetings with their mom but she don't care she will hide the clothes if it gains her some possibility of turning it in for money for her. It makes us irate but in reality the kids are the ones that suffer. But we felt they are old enough and if it comes up missing its their own mistake and fault. But they cant of course go bareback to school. So has anyone else had this and if so what other routes have you taken to stop this behavior with the other party. I just want to stop the behavior.