Not a SM issue, but wondering what you ladies think?
SO and I have known each other for 20+ years, been in each other's children's lives from day one and all that jazz....so here's what I am wondering.
SO has brought up us getting married, I told him that if he's serious about proposing then he needs to talk to my daughter who's 16 and my mom. He talked to my daughter and her response was "ulitmately it's up to you guys since you're adults, but I'm not sure how I feel about it. I'll think about it and let you know." So when he and I were talking about it with a friend of ours I said AGAIN....that I won't marry anyone unless my daughter is okay with it and comfortable with it. I don't care if I'm 75 and on my death bed. Mind you this isn't the first time I've told him this.
He got upset with me and angrily says "I guess I know where we stand then." I told him it would be like us deciding against his 2 kids wishes and them not being okay with it. I honestly don't know how his kids, 5 & 8, feel about us getting married, I haven't asked them and I don't think he has either.
I personally want ALL 3 of the kids to be okay with it and comfortable with it, am I wrong here? I mean I didn't get married the first time with the thought that I'd ever get divorced, but I certainly don't want to get married a second time and end up that way too.