I'm having a bad week for a lot of reasons. I told my husband our life is like flipping through a books pages. Any page you stop on has a problem to worry with right now! So, suffice it to say I'm not tolerant of much needless aggravation.
20 yo SS has been spending two weeks with us and two with his mom all summer on college break. As I've said before he is doing nothing but laying in his room this summer and that is fine with DH and his mom apparently. He returned to his mom's house yesterday and left a pile of clothes in the laundry basket from the past two weeks for me to wash. He's used our washer before and knows how, and I haven't washed his clothes all summer, I figured he and DD could wash their own clothes now that they are out of high school and sleeping all day while DH and I have full time jobs and cook and clean! He did bring his dishes out of his room and those were stacked beside the sink, over the dishwasher. Here is how mean I am feeling today. I took a bath towel and laid over his clothes so DH wouldn't notice them and wash them for him. Let him fish them out and take them to his mom to wash if he needs them when he leaves for school. I don't play games like that with DH or BM, but I don't like being treated like the maid by grown ass kids that lay in my house all day, eat my hard earned food and leave it all for me to clean up. Bam, that's my rant!