My girls asked if SS could go swimming at the beach with us. I asked BM if I could pick him up a little early on DH day so he could go with us to the beach. DH wasn't going, he had to work. BM said no, bc she was going to take him that day. So I waited until SS was at DH house and he had to work... I watch SS when his dad works. We went to the beach. BM found out and was passed. Come to find out she just didn't want me taking him swimming. However in the past when I couldn't babysit when it was DH weekend... BM would not watch him. So I always include SS in my plans. Should I have changed my plans bc BM doesn't want me doing particular things with SS? Now SS said that his mom told him that he can't talk to me or my girls but he said she was joking. If it's DH weekend and I'm babysitting should it matter what she says... if she refuses to watch him.
on Aug. 18, 2014 at 1:23 AM