We are custodial to my DSD, who is 8 and has ODD, so it is VERY hard, to say the least.
We just moved into a new house, where she and my four year old DD share a room. They each have their own bed, but the room is small, so there is not a lot of space.
Yesterday, DH went in there and moved DSD's bed, to "Give them each their own play space."
There was NO room in there for them to play. None.
So I went to move DD's bed, and found, in DSD's 'space' a TON of DD's toys, all separated and hidden from DD.
Now she's throwing a fit, took the mattress off DD's bed and is not allowing DD or DS in the bedroom. She is screaming and just going out of her way to be a pill.
I don't know what to do.
Seriously, I'm so lost and just... ugh!
She's getting older and her fits aren't stopping, instead, they are getting worse. She throws fits whenever she doesn't get her way, and I just don't know how I'm going to deal with it as she gets older.
I am physically stronger than she is right now, but when she's a teen, I just don't know...
ETA: I made a group for ODD support, if anyone is interested in joining.