I finally met my bf kids after 6 years of trying. The BM finally "allowed" for me to meet them. I've seen them twice, they don't say two words to me without bf prompting them (say hi, say bye). My son has finally met them once and they didn't talk to him, they played along side him. Bf kids are 9 and 7, my son is 8. It's all very awkward. I know BM has bad mouthed me, gotten into fights with bf in front of the kids about me never being allowed near them. I'm damn sure she talked even more shit about me that bf didn't hear. Was it really awkward when you first met your SO kids? How long does the awkwardness last? How did you fix it? Not being able to do anything all together put a huge strain on our relationship, now I feel seeing them is putting a big strain on our relationship. I just didn't things would be this way. But I'm pretty sure they hate me. What do I do???
on Aug. 26, 2014 at 2:01 PM