Please tell me why everything boils down to jealousy
I'm a SM and yes, the BM has tried to make my families life miserable but never to any avail. I simply do not understand the concept of a woman being jealous of someone else caring for their child. As long as there is mutual respect and reasonable guidelines why can't it be a productive relationship between SM and BM. I mean, if it didn't work out with the BM and the child's father then why not move on in a positive direction and try to do better for the child. Why is successful co-parenting so unappealing for some ladies?
Why are egos so hurt over a man that it blinds a woman from realizing what's best for the child(ren).
Please help me realize what's going on.