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ok ladies, good news/bad news

Posted by on Oct. 29, 2015 at 11:46 AM
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I'm putting it out there loud and clear. 

Good news: to me you're all real

Bad news:that means I remember you and your ups and downs and I feel for you. Be it weddings, divorces, births, deaths, SK, BK, cancer, broken toes, broekn cars and broken hearts. I consider you all real women. I know a lot of people say "if it's on-line, it's not real" but to me it is. I celebrate your ups and feel for your downs. Even those of you who think I don't care or that to me you're just someone who disagrees with me on everything.  I notice, I wonder how it worksout andsometimes I PM you with questions or caring. 

You're real to me, even if you're not real. until I find out you're not.

I'm too old to change so you best accept it :) I lurve you ladies, well...mostly teen_girl_02



Verified BM/SM/BOB .... wwnsdd?

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SammysMomma
by on Oct. 29, 2015 at 11:50 AM
Awe. :)
Boobear110
by Audra on Oct. 29, 2015 at 12:00 PM

I Lurve you too 🤗

GlockMom
by Platinum Member on Oct. 29, 2015 at 12:01 PM
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I'm the same way. I'm real. I don't understand what is so amusing to be unreal on an anonymous board. I think the bigger majority here is very real.

Besides, I'm fabulous. Why would I want to be untrue?
Tigress22304
by Ruby Member on Oct. 29, 2015 at 12:11 PM
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6isus
by Gold Member on Oct. 29, 2015 at 1:51 PM
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Well said! I too take people at face value. I believe that most of us on here are exactly who they say they are!

U want to know something... I've often thought we need to have a SMC weekend somewhere where no one knows their names and we can all get together and I would bet within a few mins. We know exactly who each Persons screen. Name is. Because I think there are quite a few authentic ladies here who are amazing (even if I didn't like the bluntness originally) and who bring perspectives to my life that I need. Then I realized some of u guys live close to each other and do that already! Especially in the past few years, you guys have been my girlies (because I pulled away from the ones who could see my pain and who would tell me to leave my marriage. I wasn't ready to hear it! So u guys have been my safe place and support system! Thanks!
❤️❤️
CampHarris
by Gold Member on Oct. 29, 2015 at 1:57 PM
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You're all real to me too!  Well, except for Lola.  She's not real, lol.

I lurve you too!!  This group is still my favorite place to waste away my work day.  :)

ASouthernMother
by Member on Oct. 29, 2015 at 2:06 PM

Ya'll are all real to me too! I have made friends online with several ladies that moved over to facebook friends.  I have had bad days, worse days and now happier times (which is just one reason why I post less and less) in my blended family.  

My skiddos are 17 & 19 so the issues are fewer and farther between- most are now skids issues with BM and at their ages they have to deal with it themselves.  I have learned so much not just from my posts but from what I have seen others go thru that has helped prepared me.

I have thought about closing my account- especially after my I had to change my name due to my Stepsister 'finding me' and going all crazy but I just can't quit you!!


tiafez
by Platinum Member on Oct. 29, 2015 at 2:23 PM
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I like that "skiddos" I'm going to blatently steal it and use it from now on.

Quoting ASouthernMother:

Ya'll are all real to me too! I have made friends online with several ladies that moved over to facebook friends.  I have had bad days, worse days and now happier times (which is just one reason why I post less and less) in my blended family.  

My skiddos are 17 & 19 so the issues are fewer and farther between- most are now skids issues with BM and at their ages they have to deal with it themselves.  I have learned so much not just from my posts but from what I have seen others go thru that has helped prepared me.

I have thought about closing my account- especially after my I had to change my name due to my Stepsister 'finding me' and going all crazy but I just can't quit you!!



Verified BM/SM/BOB .... wwnsdd?

CampHarris
by Gold Member on Oct. 29, 2015 at 2:25 PM

I shall also be blatantly stealing skiddos from you, lol!

Quoting ASouthernMother:

Ya'll are all real to me too! I have made friends online with several ladies that moved over to facebook friends.  I have had bad days, worse days and now happier times (which is just one reason why I post less and less) in my blended family.  

My skiddos are 17 & 19 so the issues are fewer and farther between- most are now skids issues with BM and at their ages they have to deal with it themselves.  I have learned so much not just from my posts but from what I have seen others go thru that has helped prepared me.

I have thought about closing my account- especially after my I had to change my name due to my Stepsister 'finding me' and going all crazy but I just can't quit you!!



Tigress22304
by Ruby Member on Oct. 29, 2015 at 3:06 PM
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Lyndaloo is only an hour from me

lol and WIKN is about 2h north of us

God help you all if we ever met up lol


Quoting 6isus: Well said! I too take people at face value. I believe that most of us on here are exactly who they say they are! U want to know something... I've often thought we need to have a SMC weekend somewhere where no one knows their names and we can all get together and I would bet within a few mins. We know exactly who each Persons screen. Name is. Because I think there are quite a few authentic ladies here who are amazing (even if I didn't like the bluntness originally) and who bring perspectives to my life that I need. Then I realized some of u guys live close to each other and do that already! Especially in the past few years, you guys have been my girlies (because I pulled away from the ones who could see my pain and who would tell me to leave my marriage. I wasn't ready to hear it! So u guys have been my safe place and support system! Thanks! ❤️❤️



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