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Can you believe this ---?

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Mostly a vent and a OMYGAWD how can you be so STUPID BM type post.

So.. For those of you who remember, BM had all her kids taken away last year (BD1 is my husband, BD2 is drugstore cowboy) for DV and SA. DH has had custody since that time and it was made permanent for his two.

BM still has an open case for her youngest two ..I guess she's finally sober now --it looks like that case will end in two months. Good for her, those kids need her since BD2 is still married and owes CS for six other kids. He fled the state. BM told this to MIL so she told us for some reason.

She's working. It's enough to pay for her 2BD and get by ..

But check THIS shit out:

BM pays no CS. That doesn't phase me. However, DH still has CS taken from his check but they refund him whatever's left after him paying back what BM took from the state (BM was on assistance).

-her mom has cut her off completely.

-she refuses to go after BD2 or his family for help with the youngest (BD2 kids)

-well, BM had an audit from the welfare / PA people and she owes money (that money is coming out of DH checks like I said, or so we reckon).

-she texts DH, and I didn't believe it because no one would be that obtuse..: so he showed me...

she told DH that her Medicare and welfare benefits got cut off (for her) so she wants custody of the DH kids because she is hurting for money. I swear on my dead parents. She wants the other two back, because her benefits got cut off. She says she makes too much now, but if she makes the same amount with all four kids.. You feel me.

And was asking "so when do you want to do this , we can do this the same day I have court for the other two"

Also she texted "well, if you just put on the court paper work they live with me so I get the welfare and the EITC I will go easy on the CS for you and one of them can stay with you.."

So all this shit about being mother of the year.. And it comes down to money. I can't even believe the audacity that BM would ask him this, so nonchalantly. Like his kids are footballs he borrowed for a minute.

Don't get me started on the whole CS shit... It doesn't matter he has them full time, someone has to pay back the audit.: I believe it was 4000 extra she got from welfare, that has to be paid back.. Don't know how she's not in jail for that. Either way, I keep telling DH to sort it out because it's money that could go to his kids. Or not.

I'm still floored she would text this to DH. I was like " you better screenshot that shit." He's like "oh don't worry, it's backed up to google drive, the cloud, my HD.."

by on Nov. 8, 2017 at 11:40 PM
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by Battler on Nov. 11, 2017 at 3:56 PM
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I love you

Quoting Boobear110:

She is a twatzilla 

by Platinum Member on Nov. 12, 2017 at 4:42 PM
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😔😔😔 hopefully if it ever goes to court your H will be able to sort it out. She is either shameless moron or a delusional idiot
Or both :)
by Bronze Member on Nov. 14, 2017 at 2:16 AM
Any update? Did he get in touch with a lawyer?
by Battler on Nov. 14, 2017 at 4:41 AM
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No lawyer yet. She hasn't made a move, and visit with mom was uneventful according to the kids.

DH needs to get on the CS people, but now he's eating shit at work. I don't know if I can call on his behalf..

Quoting Mompea5: Any update? Did he get in touch with a lawyer?
by Audra on Nov. 24, 2017 at 10:29 PM


Quoting pusheen-kitty: I love you
Quoting Boobear110:

She is a twatzilla 

by Platinum Member on Nov. 27, 2017 at 11:20 AM

if she threatens court, he needs to tell her to bring it on. He will not lose and she will regret going. If anything, she will be required to pay support. If worse, she may be charged with welfare fraud. Screw her and the lying canoe she rode in on. 

by Member on Nov. 27, 2017 at 12:23 PM

I think DH should go to court and show the judge the texts from BM and see how that works. Why is he paying her CS if she doesn't have custody?

by on Nov. 27, 2017 at 12:27 PM
People never cease to amaze me
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