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Invest and Indulge In Your Dreams

Posted by on May. 16, 2012 at 12:00 AM
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So, let's say you have a dream. An idea for a new business, a vacation of a lifetime, being debt free, having more time for the kids...whatever it is, whatever it may be, it is your dream. Which means, you have to invest in it, which sometimes can be an indulgence. And remember, investing in your dreams is what you have to do to make them happen.

Buy some new pieces for your wardrobe. This goes for the guys, too, if they are hunting for jobs or even trying to keep the jobs they have. Being current with your look, having good solid interview outfits, a non-wornout briefcase, and so on can make a difference when meeting a possible employer.

Buy some new tech. I just got a new laptop, one that is lighter and more portable as I often write on the go, at coffee shops, and during Kiddo's ballet class. It was an investment in my dream of being a successful freelance writer. 

Buy some new ideas (or learn some old ones). Say your dream is to make a children's book. Take a class, join the Society of Children's Book Writers and Illustrators, hire a sitter to watch the kids while you work on it. Put money toward this dream by learning about it and spending time on it.

What is your big dream? Tell us and what you are doing to make it happen!

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Posted by on May. 16, 2012 at 12:00 AM
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UpstateAnnette
by on May. 27, 2012 at 8:46 PM

My long term dream is to build(have built) a log cabin on several acres of land. In  the meantime we are putting some of my husbands paycheck into savings each time and buying his mother's home.  It is a nice little cape cod in a nice neighborhood.  We are supposed to close on 7/31 with a 10% down payment, it will be a 15 year fixed rate loan.  We hope to pay it off early and then sell that house to build our log cabin dream home.    

TiphaniMommy
by on May. 27, 2012 at 11:07 PM

Our biggest dream is to get out of debt so we can start saving to buy our own house. We want to grow our family and dont have the space or money to do so. (We have a 5 year old daughter who still shares a room with us since we live with hubby to be's family.)


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tgifrida
by New Member on May. 28, 2012 at 4:41 AM
I'm currently working on my dream to be debt-free! Thanks to my home business, I'll be taking my family on our first family vacation this summer and then a second one towards the end of the year! ...so I can cross that off my list, as well as the purchase of our new family van.

More vacations are definitely in the horizon, as well as a new home and maybe a second vehicle.
AzariahsMother
by on May. 28, 2012 at 1:03 PM

I have a lot of dreams, and just feel like right now they will never happen.  I have made some steps to see if I could, but nothing has worked so far.  Think some doubt comes from self and just thinking that I can't.

tgifrida
by New Member on May. 28, 2012 at 3:26 PM
You shouldn't do that to yourself. Dreams don't come true unless you believe in them and believe in yourself. If your dream seems like a far stretch... How about setting smaller goals that will lead to the bigger goal? This way, as you reach each milestone, you are closer than ever to your dreams. The small steps definitely add up!
momof3kidsdskh
by on Jun. 4, 2012 at 3:06 AM

today is such a sad day for me.  badits my bday an i'm not around my kids,i dont have anything to live or look forward too. i have a bucket list which i hope i can fullfill it b4 God takes me. anyone who knows of someone who would be kind enough to help me financially to fullfill my bucket list which i want to do with my kids please keep me in mind. i have the medical papers on my condition an my kids names just incase some nice person wants to help me  fullfill my bucket list with my kids i can send you via text msg to ur cell a picture of my medical records an my kids names,as they are on facebook also,just to let the person no this is real,im for real an my kids are also as well as my condition. so please if anyone knows of a well to do person tthat could find it in their hearts to help me as a mom please let me know b4 i leave this earth. iv'e even emailed some tlk show but no response. well whoever can help me an my kids thank you in advance. ohh an anyone with a birthday today i hope your's is better then mine. happy birthday to you

momtoknk
by New Member on Jun. 25, 2012 at 2:22 AM

HI, having I would like to share this opportunity.  I found myself struggling because I needed to help my husband financialy, BUT I wasn't very happy with the fact that my kids would have to spend more than half of the day without mom or dad.  Well that's when this amazing opportunity was shared with me and I loved it. 

Now I am my own boss, I get to spend time with my kids and husband but still receiving a decent income.  I make my own schedule and I am in control of my time.

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