How do you ladies go about chores in your family? I am trying to find a good method for keeping track of chores & if they were completed. I also am trying to figure some kind of reward/punishment plan to use. My kids are 6,7,9 & 16. What are the best chores for those ages & what are ways to do rewards/punishment? I'm going to do allowance if they are completed on time but what if they miss a day or whine & complain? Do I take away the allowance completely or dock just the day they missed or what? And what is a good amount per week?