Tired of talking about the STBX all the time. Hate the "fakeness" of facebook and all the "happy people" on there who have these perfect lives. Life isn't perfect, it is messy and unfair and sometimes, lately A LOT of the time, the bad guy wins. But you know what, you choose if you are going to be miserable about it or if you are going to make the best of it and try to find happiness in what you have. That's what I tend to do. I have three beautiful boys, who drive me absolutely crazy on any given day with their non-stop fighting. I have been hunting for work since Jan with no luck, but I choose to belive that since I am not really ready to start until Sept, that THAT is the reason I haven't gotten anything. I am in control of my life now, and I choose to feel good and have fun. In Naperville, IL, anyone close by????