I fully understand doing it for grandparents that live far away that never see said grandkids but what's the deal with the one that live close?
Why do the grandparents get to "spoil them" or so they say and then hand them back but yet the parents still have to do everything to make this possible?
Or is it just that I have shitty family that don't really care?
Before I lived with my parents, they rarely came to see the kids, keeping in mind I have 3. They never offered or invited us over for anything but guilt tripped me if they weren't invited to my dinner parties with friends. My inlaws we never hear anything from good or bad unless we called them. Why do I have to truck my family of 5 all over when they are both 2 people each? I don't understand this and it doesn't seem that I am the only one with this problem either.