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PIOG: Together We Mourn, Together We Grow: Statement from the Kletzky Family

Posted by on Jul. 26, 2011 at 8:12 PM
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Statement by Rabbi Nachman and Itta Kletzky

Parents of Leiby Kletzky, of blessed memory

By the Grace of G‑d
Tammuz 19, 5771 / July 21, 2011

The traditional seven intense days of mourning (“shiva”) for our beloved Leiby are complete, but the ache in our hearts will remain forever.

We thank G‑d for the nearly nine beautiful years that He entrusted us with Leiby’s pure soul. We are certain that Leiby is now looking down from heaven and blessing us all.

We would like to once again thank all our friends and neighbors; all the selfless volunteers from near and far; local, city, state, and federal agencies; and all our fellow New Yorkers and beyond who assisted us physically, emotionally, and spiritually—as well as all of G‑d’s children around the world who held our dear Leiby in their thoughts and prayers.

We pray that none of you should ever have to live through what we did. But if any tragedy is to ever befall any of you, G‑d forbid, you should be blessed with a community and public as supportive as ours. We feel that through Leiby we’ve become family wi th you all.


Many of you have asked us what you can do now in Leiby’s memory, and how you can help us find comfort. Looking back at Leiby’s all-too-short years among us, here are a few ideas:

Acts of unity and lovingkindness. Let us perpetuate the feeling of collective responsibility and love expressed during the search for Leiby. An additional act of kindness toward your neighbor, or to those less fortunate than you, can go a long, long way toward perfecting our world. Putting a couple of coins into a charity box daily is one way of tangibly expressing that lovingkindness.

Gratitude. Leiby deeply cherished his siddur, his prayerbook, and praying to G‑d meant the world to him. He was known by his teachers for his concentration in prayer, always being the last to finish. In Leiby’s memory, when you wake up each morning take a few moments to pray and reflect and thank G‑d for giving us life (“Modeh Ani” in the prayerbook).

Light. Every Friday evening our family sits down together for Shabbatdinner to the light of the Shabbat candles. A candle shines for each of our children—and Leiby’s candle will always be included. On Friday evening, please give a few coins to charity and light the candles before sunset with our beloved Leiby in mind.

Memorial fund. Together with Rabbi Binyamin Eisenberger, we have established a memorial fund to help people in dire need (www.leibykletzkymemorialfund.com), to channel the lovingkindness shown to us and our dear Leiby toward many, many others in need. We welcome your participation.

From the deepest place in our hearts, we thank you all for your help, your support and your prayers. May Leiby’s soul live on as a blessing inside each and every one of you.

Sincerely,
Nachman and Itta Kletzky

Robin in Chicago

by on Jul. 26, 2011 at 8:12 PM
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sweettigeress
by on Jul. 26, 2011 at 9:50 PM

Interesting.

earthangel1967
by on Jul. 26, 2011 at 10:14 PM

such a sad story. Why is the word God blanked out that is strange.

rkoloms
by on Jul. 27, 2011 at 6:21 AM


Quoting earthangel1967:

such a sad story. Why is the word God blanked out that is strange.

Jewish people, especially observant ones, do not write out the name. Often, we will use the Hebrew term "Ha Shem", or The Name. There is a great explanation here:  http://www.jewfaq.org/name.htm

betsystipo
by on Jul. 27, 2011 at 7:06 AM

 such a sad story

TheJerseyGirl
by on Jul. 27, 2011 at 8:21 PM

 So sad.

usmclife58
by on Jul. 27, 2011 at 8:46 PM

So sad.

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