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 Then comes marriage, THEN comes the baby in the baby carriage?

True or false? Is this the way you think it SHOULD be?


by on Sep. 7, 2011 at 9:43 PM
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mtsmom1986
by on Sep. 8, 2011 at 12:56 AM
Not how it worked for me at all. And I'm perfectly ok with that
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LOswald0314
by on Sep. 8, 2011 at 1:17 AM

 I think however each individual couple wants to do it, is the right way.

mom2gr8tgirls
by Gold Member on Sep. 8, 2011 at 7:52 AM
Meh, I don't think people who do it that way are any better, or better off, than anyone else. Personally, we conceived DD (planned) then bought our house then got married then DD was born. Worked for us...we've been together for 14.5 years and married for almost 9 years.
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MistressMinerva
by Jennifer on Sep. 8, 2011 at 10:19 AM


Quoting mtsmom1986:

Not how it worked for me at all. And I'm perfectly ok with that


jltplk25
by Gold Member on Sep. 8, 2011 at 11:04 AM

I would prefer my kids to get a college degree before they consider a family or marriage. I would like for them to be able to support a wife/husband/kids but I know life happens.

Kristin42010
by on Sep. 8, 2011 at 11:10 AM
Thats how i did it. Doesn't mean I'm any better however in my eyes if you cant make a commitment to someone (such as marriage) then you should not bring a child into the world. Every kid deserves both parents around all the time. It's selfish to just have a kid to do it. Everyone says accidents happen however everyone knows what causes a baby. Like teenagers having kids seriously? We as parents can prevent that. You just can't be blind to the fact alot of teens have pre marital sex. As adults it's our decision.
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USAFamily
by on Sep. 8, 2011 at 1:56 PM

 I will msg you :)

Quoting monkeymamma72:

I think it's the best way and the way it's intended to be.  Unfortunately, doesn't always happen that way.  Melissa....where'd you get your siggy?  I LOVE IT!

 

buella
by on Sep. 8, 2011 at 3:45 PM

 I went off track :)

Love, baby THEN marriage

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