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Is she really a friend?

Posted by on Oct. 10, 2011 at 8:13 PM
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Is a friend a friend if all she wants too talk to you about is her guy problems? Is she a friend if shes never around when I need her or need to talk to someone?
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by on Oct. 10, 2011 at 8:13 PM
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mrsnoble2004
by on Oct. 10, 2011 at 8:14 PM

Sorry but to me that is not a friend.

splatz
by Sarah on Oct. 10, 2011 at 8:15 PM
Not a very good friend...

The only time I ever hear from the girl who was supposed to be my "best friend" is when she is talking about her boyfriend or her soon to be ex husband. So I know how you feel.
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mnmom1328
by on Oct. 10, 2011 at 8:21 PM
I agree..I was really good friends with 2 ladies I met here on cafemom...but they seem to not want anything to do with me, so I just gave up. Been contemplating about deleting them off my Facebook page..luckily I've been busy so I haven't had time to think about them.

Heather
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goddess99
by Michelle on Oct. 10, 2011 at 8:30 PM

She's not a friend :(

LovelyLauren55
by on Oct. 10, 2011 at 8:52 PM

I'd have to say no

LindaClement
by on Oct. 10, 2011 at 8:53 PM

Everyone brings different things to the buffet of friendships... Some people take more than they bring, others bring more than they take.

It makes sense: giving feels better than taking, so the ones who offer more than they get walk away elated. The ones who need to take more than they offer get to walk away relieved.

A collection of friends is a better way to level out the give and take.

McM0609
by on Oct. 10, 2011 at 8:54 PM
I wish we can talk about something other then her sexual life with all these guys. It gets old after awhile and I would like to talk and vent too. I feel used sometimes and only good for her own benefit.
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mom2gr8tgirls
by on Oct. 10, 2011 at 9:28 PM

Definitely not a friend.

jltplk25
by Gold Member on Oct. 10, 2011 at 9:40 PM

Sounds more like a leech than a friend.

MommyWeston
by on Oct. 10, 2011 at 10:04 PM

Nope, she's not a good friend, I wouldn't waste anymore of my time on her

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