SORRY THIS IS SO LONG BUT I REALLY NEED SOMEONE:
When you love someone, (as you all may know, it's realy hard to leave them).
My husband and i haven't been together very long. I just turned 18. I got married when i was 17. We have a little girl together she's a year old now. I love her and i want the best foor us.
My husband is 19 (still a child to me)-very immature.when i was pregnant( before we were married) we broke up fo r 3 months and then got back together. We have been together every since. We argued a couple times.
We soon decided to get married( even though we were young)
We have been married since may. Every since we got married he has been arguing with me. We argue at least a couple times a day over stupid stuff.
He's controlling. I cant barley talk to any guys. He always acts like he can tell me what to wear. if i dont listen hes pissy all day and treats me like im a whore. Whenever we get into a fight, he always turns it around on me. We recently broke up like 2 weeks before my daughters birthday ( we were only split p for 4 days). He started running with the friends that i asked him not to hang around (he is on prohbation and wll get in trouble for being around them) It was his fault for breaking up because he pushed me but he kept hanging up on me and lying to me while we were broken up and didnt even try. His mom (from my MIL post) She lied for him when he was running around. She ignored me. I told him Marlie was sick and he wouldnt tell me where he was (so i cld take him to hospital) for like 15 minutes. My daughter had 103.5 fever w ith Phenmonia and he was playing games.
Later on i smacked him and he called the police on me even though i didnt when he pushed me down.
Today i have discover that (during the breakup) He came t o my school with his friend and i wasnt there that day. He got in this girls (his ex) car and told her all about us breaking up and how he was happy about it.
(also he was trying to talk to some other girl who just turned 16 that weve had problems over. He had her come pick him up and supposibly "filled her head full of crap."
We are back together but after today i am hurt because of the girls he was talking to and how he acted like he didnt care.
I love him so m uch because when were together (and happy sometimes) hes so good to me and he tells people(girl) treat him like shit.
I dont want to be without him because it makes me hurt and my daughter looks for him, and he doesnt care. but when hes around me he says he loves me and he cares.
WHAT DO I DO?