well im 24 and have a daughter whos 5 .. and my bf recently joined the army and is in boot camp right now . we arent married which means im really on my own right now :( my question is does being married and not being married really effect how things will go in our relationship ? he says he wont marry me just so i can live on base with him but wants me to live across the country and wait for him with out any commitment ?? im stressing cuase i dont like being away from him and he just has me sitting here waiting :( i feel like getting married with make things easier from what i hear but im not sure ?? any advise ladys ? PLEASE !