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on Nov. 27, 2011 at 9:34 AM
I say try and relax for a little while. I know a lot of people who had trouble conceiving, and once they "quit trying" so hard and just enjoying the frequent romps in the sack and devouring eachother in a passionate frenzy, they were able to get pregnant. And I understand not wanting to throw your money away on something that may or may not work. I wish you the best!
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on Nov. 27, 2011 at 9:48 AM
Thank you for the support! I do not have insurance right now bc due to medical conditions noone will cover me! Others can bash me for it but I pay out of pocket at clinics and that's my choice! Infertility is a long and hard struggle and I guess some just don't understant! Thanks again!
Quoting WillsMOM72:
Why post before reading the other comments? She said she can afford the money but she hates to waste it. If she wants another child so close in age as her other that's her choice.
Quoting armywife1229:I honestly think that if you can't afford the $40 for the meds, you really can't afford the second child.
And, having been one to have children close together, I don't recommend it.
Didn't your doctor's tell you to wait at least 12 months after a c-section to have another baby? Your body needs time to heal.
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on Nov. 28, 2011 at 8:01 AM
Because to many ppl are having kids when they can't afford them. And how do you know they didn't work, you got pregnant didn't you ?? Your the one who said you "could not afford $40. a month" not us.....most ppl take that as not being able to afford it, not what you meant it to mean. You want it to mean that then post it that way.
Quoting Pammi86:
Wow all the comments seem to just focus on the $40! Its not that I'm so strapped for money! Its that $40 every month for something that didn't work before seems like throwing money away and I can't afford to throw money away like that. Maybe I should have put it that way. But where the heck is the support!? W/e, next time I'll be sticking to my infertility talk with my infertility group!
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on Nov. 28, 2011 at 8:07 AM
Lots of us understand infertility.... I couldn't get pregnant didn't know why, had surgery and found out I had stage 4 endometriosis, was told I would need fertility drugs to get pregnant, luckily 9 weeks after my surgery I was 5 weeks pregnant. Then when my DD was 9 m old, we ttc for over 2+ YEARS and nothing. Then dh lost his job and we stooped ttc. So yes some of us know the struggles of infertility. I now have to have a hysterectomy because then endow is so bad so no more kids for me.
Quoting Pammi86:
Thank you for the support! I do not have insurance right now bc due to medical conditions noone will cover me! Others can bash me for it but I pay out of pocket at clinics and that's my choice! Infertility is a long and hard struggle and I guess some just don't understant! Thanks again!
Quoting WillsMOM72:
Why post before reading the other comments? She said she can afford the money but she hates to waste it. If she wants another child so close in age as her other that's her choice.
Quoting armywife1229:I honestly think that if you can't afford the $40 for the meds, you really can't afford the second child.
And, having been one to have children close together, I don't recommend it.
Didn't your doctor's tell you to wait at least 12 months after a c-section to have another baby? Your body needs time to heal.
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on Nov. 28, 2011 at 1:49 PM
Jump down my throat why don't you! Thanks but I really don't care what you have to say!
Quoting Aamy:
Because to many ppl are having kids when they can't afford them. And how do you know they didn't work, you got pregnant didn't you ?? Your the one who said you "could not afford $40. a month" not us.....most ppl take that as not being able to afford it, not what you meant it to mean. You want it to mean that then post it that way.
Quoting Pammi86:
Wow all the comments seem to just focus on the $40! Its not that I'm so strapped for money! Its that $40 every month for something that didn't work before seems like throwing money away and I can't afford to throw money away like that. Maybe I should have put it that way. But where the heck is the support!? W/e, next time I'll be sticking to my infertility talk with my infertility group!
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on Nov. 28, 2011 at 1:59 PM
LMAO. Yeah ok. You typed it, not us.
Quoting Pammi86:
Jump down my throat why don't you! Thanks but I really don't care what you have to say!
Quoting Aamy:
Because to many ppl are having kids when they can't afford them. And how do you know they didn't work, you got pregnant didn't you ?? Your the one who said you "could not afford $40. a month" not us.....most ppl take that as not being able to afford it, not what you meant it to mean. You want it to mean that then post it that way.
Quoting Pammi86:
Wow all the comments seem to just focus on the $40! Its not that I'm so strapped for money! Its that $40 every month for something that didn't work before seems like throwing money away and I can't afford to throw money away like that. Maybe I should have put it that way. But where the heck is the support!? W/e, next time I'll be sticking to my infertility talk with my infertility group!
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on Nov. 28, 2011 at 2:59 PM
And if you look at my comment after the fact I stated I should have worded it better yet u continue to be rude about it! We are suppose to be here to support eachother, not act like children and here u are LMAO! Seriously? All I said was thanks but I don't care for your opinion bc clearly you are being plain rude. I know what I said and how I said it. My mistake for not clarifying it. And if u want to be in a group like this you should be supportive, not child like and rude about things! But I have better things to do so that's all.
Quoting Aamy:
LMAO. Yeah ok. You typed it, not us.
Quoting Pammi86:
Jump down my throat why don't you! Thanks but I really don't care what you have to say!
Quoting Aamy:
Because to many ppl are having kids when they can't afford them. And how do you know they didn't work, you got pregnant didn't you ?? Your the one who said you "could not afford $40. a month" not us.....most ppl take that as not being able to afford it, not what you meant it to mean. You want it to mean that then post it that way.
Quoting Pammi86:
Wow all the comments seem to just focus on the $40! Its not that I'm so strapped for money! Its that $40 every month for something that didn't work before seems like throwing money away and I can't afford to throw money away like that. Maybe I should have put it that way. But where the heck is the support!? W/e, next time I'll be sticking to my infertility talk with my infertility group!
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OMG! What do I do??!! (LONG Post)
- WillsMOM72
on Nov. 27, 2011 at 9:34 AM