will my daughter be more attached to her daycare provider than me?
I start school 4 days a week on the 23rd of this month and we have to put our two kids in daycare...
our son, 2 and 1/2, desperately needs it, and I know he will love having friends and socialization and crafts and learning and everything. I'm super excited for him to go to daycare even though I am going to miss him, I have been a stay at home mom since the day he was born and never missed a single "first" thing he did like the first time he rolled over, or sat up, his first steps exct.
our daughter on the other hand... will only be 6 days less than 2 months old.. I'm affraid she will form a bond with the daycare lady and that she will be attached to her.. i'm scared to miss her "first" things and I'm sick to my stomach about leaving her... :[
i have to go back to school so that I can complete my credits for the job opportunity that I have coming up.. the job will be mon-friday 8 am -2 pm so I know I will have to get use to her being in daycare anyways...but the job wouldn't start till late august/early september so she would be a few months older... this job would give my husband and I the opportunity to get a house instead of paying a rent we can hardly afford with the rest of our bills and we would finally be able to put some money in savings... we would have a slightly more comfortable life and it would be our ideal "white picket fence" living..
did anyone else put there baby in daycare this early? did it change your bond? was he/she attached to their daycare provider? :[
ps: I am nursing and pumping breast milk so she will still be nursing while we are home and having breast milk in a bottle while i am at school..