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Husband being sneaky....IDK

Posted by on Jan. 7, 2012 at 12:33 PM
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Ok moms im pissed and need some help.

My DH is the father of my son, now he got a new job and really likes it. HE always comes home and talks about work and the people etc. Well one day he left his work email open and asked me to send an email to his boss about his schedule. So i did. But i saw a email from some chick, curious i opened it. it was talking about meeting up.......so i checked the sent box and boy was i surprised. He was talking about eating her our and gave her his # and today i went through his txt and one txt was to an old friend he has, told her that he should have been his wife and the other was from the nigh he came in at 3am to the coworker he was emailing meeting her at her house but when he came in at 3am he never mentioned her. i got mad at asked him what really happened that night n he got pissed and said he didnt cheat. he yelled at me and says i need to stop being insecure they were meeting to get tree (aka weed lol) then he stormed out the house. so what do you guys think? he says he hasent cheated but the fact he lies or well neglects to relay some information is unnerving....what do you think i should do? i told him if he ever cheated i'd leave.....do you think hes covering up to keep his son close? idk.......

(sorry for the short-hand, im a still pissed)

Edit: here is the email well the first one. s is my husband and p is the chick

RE:
S
Sent: Thursday, December 29, 2011 9:44 PM
To:
P

No time like the present  they say but break
 
_____________________________________________
From:    P
Sent:   Thursday, December 29, 2011 9:44 PM
To:     S
Subject:        RE:
 
Idk yet
 
_____________________________________________
From:   
Sent:   Thursday, December 29, 2011 9:42 PM
To:     P
Subject:        RE:
 
Bet judt give me a time and a place
 
 
_____________________________________________
From:    P
Sent:   Thursday, December 29, 2011 9:42 PM
To:     S
Subject:        RE:
 
Lol yea :)
 
_____________________________________________
From:    S
Sent:   Thursday, December 29, 2011 9:41 PM
To:     P
Subject:        RE:
 
Hey I just said snack and I know lol  let the high  school note writing begin lol  u still aint said yes though
 
 
_____________________________________________
From:    P
Sent:   Thursday, December 29, 2011 9:40 PM
To:     S
Subject:        RE:
 
Omg out of control ( but watch wht u say on here cause they check these msg)
;)
 
_____________________________________________
From:    S
Sent:   Thursday, December 29, 2011 9:38 PM
To:     P
Subject:        RE:
 
u
 
_____________________________________________
From:    P
Sent:   Thursday, December 29, 2011 9:37 PM
To:     S
Subject:        RE:
 
Wht u want
 
_____________________________________________
From:    S
Sent:   Thursday, December 29, 2011 9:35 PM
To:     P
Subject:        RE:
 
Yea lol u think im joking  lemme get a snack then ?
 
_____________________________________________
From:    P
Sent:   Thursday, December 29, 2011 9:33 PM
To:     S
Subject:        RE:
 
Lmao k
 
_____________________________________________
From:    S
Sent:   Thursday, December 29, 2011 9:32 PM
To:     P
Subject:        RE:
 
We can def set something up got anything detailed in mind srry im a bit of a freak so u gotta specify or my mind will run wild
 
_____________________________________________
From:    P
Sent:   Thursday, December 29, 2011 9:29 PM
To:     S
Subject:        RE:
 
Lol both
 
_____________________________________________
From:    S
Sent:   Thursday, December 29, 2011 9:29 PM
To:     P
Subject:        RE:
 
Is that a question or a statement dear?
 
 
_____________________________________________
From:    Posey, Latecia 
Sent:   Thursday, December 29, 2011 9:28 PM
To:     Smith, Jonathan
Subject:        RE:
 
Nun try to kick it dis weekend
 
_____________________________________________
From:    S
Sent:   Thursday, December 29, 2011 9:25 PM
To:     P
Subject:        RE:
 
8162883*** ??? What u schemin on ?
 
_____________________________________________
From:    P
Sent:   Thursday, December 29, 2011 9:23 PM
To:     S
Subject:        RE:
 
Idk but off of linwood nd tracy wht yo #
 
_____________________________________________
From:    S
Sent:   Thursday, December 29, 2011 9:22 PM
To:     P
Subject:        RE:
 
I feel you so what you gonna do now were u stay out anyway? Any intrest in my intrest lol?
 
_____________________________________________
From:    P
Sent:   Thursday, December 29, 2011 9:20 PM
To:     S
Subject:        RE:
 
Lol idk wht I did but im man I wont get paid til staurday or Tuesday I was planin on kickin it dis weekend
 
_____________________________________________
From:   
Sent:   Thursday, December 29, 2011 9:17 PM
To:     P
Subject:        RE:
 
Hey whats good so u did spell it right lol so whats good ?
 
 
_____________________________________________
From:    P
Sent:   Thursday, December 29, 2011 9:13 PM
To:     S
Subject:       
 
Hey whts up
by on Jan. 7, 2012 at 12:33 PM
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xragdollbarbiex
by on Jan. 7, 2012 at 2:01 PM
now he being childish and wont talk
jltplk25
by Gold Member on Jan. 7, 2012 at 2:05 PM
He sent her an email saying he wanted to eat her out? Is that correct?
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xragdollbarbiex
by on Jan. 7, 2012 at 2:07 PM

sure did he uses the term "i want a snack" he used it with me b4

PinkParadox
by on Jan. 7, 2012 at 2:08 PM
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Even if he hasn't done it physically, the intent is there.  You don't just tell some woman you're going to eat her out.  Definitely cheating.

mich.el.le
by on Jan. 7, 2012 at 2:09 PM

 I think you both need to grow up-a LOT.  *smh* And yeah, I'd kick him to the curb.

heather4511
by on Jan. 7, 2012 at 2:10 PM
That email and text alone would really bother me and make me ask questions as well. Can you have a civil talk about it and tell him exactly what you saw?
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jltplk25
by Gold Member on Jan. 7, 2012 at 2:12 PM
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Yeah even if he didn't do it, he sure thought of it. Y'all need to sit down and figure out what each wants from the relationship.
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xragdollbarbiex
by on Jan. 7, 2012 at 2:13 PM


he wont listen he tries to overpower my voice so i say screw it and go to something else.

and FYI he's cheated in the past so thats why i look cuz i catch him then im leaving. thats why idk how to take this.

Quoting heather4511:

That email and text alone would really bother me and make me ask questions as well. Can you have a civil talk about it and tell him exactly what you saw?


mich.el.le
by on Jan. 7, 2012 at 2:13 PM

 Wait, so he just said he wanted a snack? Context?

xragdollbarbiex
by on Jan. 7, 2012 at 2:23 PM

i made an edit with the email. at least the first one

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