I went to a lawyer. She told me in the state of ky most likely I would get custody of my kids. With him getting every other weekend and one afternoon a week. Which if he asked to take them some where I would not keep them from him. I know he loves them. As far as our property goes I am not on the house loan but I am on the title. My car is also in his name with me being on the title as well. If I file he can not sell anything after that. Also I promise I'm not a man. I laughed so hard when I read that. :) I'm a 22 yr old woman. My los are 21 months and 14 wks.
Also as far as me being bipolar he can not use it against me because I am medicated and have never put him or my kids in danger. He makes over 65000 a yr so the lawyer said I could get quite a bit of money. Which I just want to make sure my kids are ok and taken care of. I really appreciate the input and I have saved all text. I have not decided what to do yet and I'm starting to think I may not love him anymore. I just don't look at him the same after all of this.