My daughter is going to be 16 in 10 days. When we have asked her what she would like she said she wants a cell phone. She has stated that if she does not get one then she is going to be very upset. Her father has told her no and ask if she can think of anything else? I am the step mom, her mom is dead. I agree with my husband that when she gets a job she can get her own phone. Are we being unfair?