Daughter #2 is planning a wedding in Mexico for next year. Daughter #1 has a baby that is 3 mo. old now. #2 wants wedding at Adults Only resort. My husband, #1 and I are upset that #2 doesn't want the baby there. We understand if she doesn't want him at ceremony, but it will be a smallish wedding of maybe 50 with just family and close friends. And the baby is family. Can't understand why she wouldn't include him. #1 is thinking of leaving baby with husband at home and going by herself if this is the case. Are we unreasonalbe thinking that she should accomodate the child? It would just be so weird with #1 and husband to be there without child or #1 by herself.