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Posted by on Feb. 22, 2012 at 11:09 PM
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Recently Lexi has fallen in love with the movie Tangled. She watches it every chance she gets plus she listens to the cd every night.

Before this, the movie wasnt even a blip on mil's radar. So I was kind of surprised when she suggested a Tangled/Cars theme for Lilly and Quincy's room. First of all, Lilly isn't aware of cartoons or characters or anything of the sort. She doesn't even know her arm from her foot! Secondly I don't understand why mil keeps trying to use things that I like or my kids like. I could understand her reasoning better if Lilly was into the movie too.

I wasn't sure what to say so I said that Lilly looked more like a sleeping beauty than tangled and that I'd come up with some ideas for mil to look at. Wondering now if I should have even offered to redo the room. :-/
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3Dani75
by on Feb. 23, 2012 at 12:07 AM

 ok so who's Lilly & how old is she and also how would you incorporate Tangled with Cars? kinda difficult...& why are children of opposite gender in same room ,how old are they ( most states say any child over age 2 shouldn't share room with sibling of opposite sex) good for you to offer to redo the room though, if Lillys not even old enough to tell her hand from her foot then she obviously wont care what her room looks like, or how about a theme covering ALL the disney princesses then when  she's older she can pick which one she likes? Good luck!

jltplk25
by Gold Member on Feb. 23, 2012 at 9:20 AM
Sorry. I forget not everyone knows Lilly and her story. Lol.

Lilly is a 2 year old special needs child that was adopted by my mil and fil last December. She's just above legally blind, can't crawl, can't eat except through a feeding tube, and she has a slew of health issues.

Quincy is a 3 year old autistic boy that was also adopted a couple years ago. They just moved Lilly back into his room for the time being.

I have no clue what she was thinking. Lol. I think she wants a really girly theme for Lilly and a boyish one for Quincy.


Quoting 3Dani75:

 ok so who's Lilly & how old is she and also how would you incorporate Tangled with Cars? kinda difficult...& why are children of opposite gender in same room ,how old are they ( most states say any child over age 2 shouldn't share room with sibling of opposite sex) good for you to offer to redo the room though, if Lillys not even old enough to tell her hand from her foot then she obviously wont care what her room looks like, or how about a theme covering ALL the disney princesses then when  she's older she can pick which one she likes? Good luck!


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mom2gr8tgirls
by TattooedMichele on Feb. 23, 2012 at 9:24 AM
I'd just try to steer her away from using one specific princess. Good luck though.
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splatz
by Sarah on Feb. 23, 2012 at 9:37 AM
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I have no idea... How about just a princess room without any characters?

I don't get where people get that its against the law for children of opposite genders to share a room. I have been told this a few times now. Yet have never been able to find straight info on that..

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jltplk25
by Gold Member on Feb. 23, 2012 at 11:28 AM
The military frowns upon it but I've never heard it was a law either. Lol


Quoting splatz:

I have no idea... How about just a princess room without any characters?



I don't get where people get that its against the law for children of opposite genders to share a room. I have been told this a few times now. Yet have never been able to find straight info on that..




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Pammi86
by Pamela on Feb. 23, 2012 at 12:58 PM
It's nice of you to help! How about a princess theme!?
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splatz
by Sarah on Feb. 23, 2012 at 7:59 PM

My son is really upset about not sharing a room with his sister once we move into a bigger place. He likes having her there. He told me she helps make him feel safe. haha

Quoting jltplk25:

The military frowns upon it but I've never heard it was a law either. Lol


Quoting splatz:

I have no idea... How about just a princess room without any characters?



I don't get where people get that its against the law for children of opposite genders to share a room. I have been told this a few times now. Yet have never been able to find straight info on that..





goddess99
by Michelle on Feb. 23, 2012 at 8:21 PM

I would do something very colorful. Since it's a boy and girl sharing a room..? maybe Monsters, Inc. The characters aren't really scary or anything, plus they are very colorful and interesting looking. JMO

goddess99
by Michelle on Feb. 23, 2012 at 8:22 PM

Plus I asked Zadessa and she said that movie is for both. Not a boy movie and not a girl movie, it's both. lol =)

Quoting goddess99:

I would do something very colorful. Since it's a boy and girl sharing a room..? maybe Monsters, Inc. The characters aren't really scary or anything, plus they are very colorful and interesting looking. JMO


foreverof4
by Member on Feb. 23, 2012 at 9:13 PM

I know when my son shared a room with my god daughter. I love to draw so we make a starry sky and buzz and barbie dancing together. I know colorful is good. Good luck.

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