I have been with my husband for 7 1/2 yrs. Up untill about a year ago, he was occasionally physically and verbally abusive. We've broken up and gotten back together at least 9 times during our relationship. We also have a 3 yo daughter together. About a year ago he was court ordered to attend a batterers group. He has slowly gotten better. He even catches himself when he sometimes gets verbally abusive. The problem is, it seems like the better he gets, the more I pull away. I'm even on the verge of leaving, again. What is wrong with me?! I don't enjoy being abused, but y am I putting up walls now that he's being the way I've always wanted? I need some advice before I possibly make a big mistake.
on Feb. 29, 2012 at 1:57 PM