Ok, so DH and I have a fake FB page that we created to see if his family was saying crap about us that they shouldn't have. Some blocked my real page, I blocked some of them so the only way to check was to create this page. Very long story but they are all toxic, evil people that I don't want in my life but I also want to make sure that they aren't putting stuff out there that isn't true about any of us (they have done that in the past).
So DH has been adding people to this profile so it looks real. Well last night/early this morning he puts the status as "the worst is being married and in love with someone else. but how do tell those 2 people about how you feel". 2 women that he added (that he knew before he met me) responded and they were all going back and forth. The one gave him her number. Mind you the profile is of a female, so this woman thinks she's talking to another woman. I also saw that this other woman, who he had added but deleted when I asked him to, had emailed her number as well. When I asked about the phone numbers he said he didn't call or text them and deleted them, didn't save them to his phone.
Here's the kicker. I have access to his address book on his phone through the backup assistant online. While he was telling me he didn't add them I saw that he actually had. So what did I do? I deleted them both, then synched it back to his phone so the numbers were gone. Was I wrong for doing this? I also blocked the one number so he can't call/text and she can't respond. I know for a fact that he is NOT attracted to the one that I blocked. But I can't say for sure about the other (according to what she wrote on the status update she's in a relationship but still in love with her ex...and no DH is not her ex).
know that he messes with people to make himself feel better (it's not
something I'm proud that he does and have tried to get him to stop). Is
this just because he's depressed right now? Or should I really be
worried? BTW I also noticed on the Internet history that he did a
search for suicide hotlines that text last night.