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An Example of NOT Juggling It All

Posted by on Mar. 12, 2012 at 12:00 AM
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In my last post I neatly listed a set of goals that I try to accomplish each day in my quest to “juggle it all”.  I may have also mentioned that I don’t always meet those goals – but I think I came across as generally having it together.  Just in case anyone is worried about living up to the high standards I seem to be meeting regularly here in my domestic paradise, I thought I’d share a little bit about today.

7 AM: Partner wakes up and gets ready to go to work.  I am pregnancy-style EXHAUSTED and stay in bed while she not only gets herself ready for the day but takes the lead on getting our toddler dressed and giving him breakfast.

8:30 AM: Partner leaves and I peel myself out of bed.  I’m wearing a bathrobe as I help my toddler use the potty and then set him up with crayons so that I can check my email and work on the post for this series (I’d begun drafting something about making healthy meals from scratch a couple days ago).  Instead I buy a diaper bag we can’t really afford online.  Toddler is getting his second year molars and is moody, so peaceful coloring quickly devolves into throwing things around the room and shrieking.

11 AM: After some calming and cuddling of the toddler, I open the fridge to figure out what to do for lunch.  Thank goodness for leftovers.  I heat up some zucchini-corn chowder and a quinoa patty for him – and don’t argue about the amount of ketchup he insists on dumping on the patty. 

NOON: Wipe down kid, potty again, new diaper and put him down for a nap at 12:30.  He does not fall asleep without a fight.  A long, drawn out fight that leaves me wishing I could take a nap myself.

1:30 PM: Toddler is finally asleep.  I settle in hoping to finally get some writing done.  I am still wearing my bathrobe, when I remember I have a midwife appointment this afternoon – oops.  I jump in the shower and finish getting dressed just as my cranky boy is waking up (I swear these naps are getting shorter and shorter). 

3:00 PM: I am getting the toddler dressed and pottied as my partner arrives home (of course she didn’t forget about our appointment).  She finishes wrangling the kid while I scramble looking for my pregnancy binder and gathering my diaper bag, keys, and wallet. 

4:00 PM: Midwife appointment.  Baby looks great, I’m feeling healthy, glucose test coming up next month – no major news or worries.  My partner entertains our toddler during the appointment so that I can give the midwife my full attention.

5:00 PM: We are on our way back home and I don’t have a plan for dinner.  We swing by and grab a pizza on our way (It’s a vegetable now, right?).

7:00 PM: Pizza has been eaten and my partner gives the toddler his bath and gets him ready for bed as I stare blankly at the post that is due today. 

8:00 PM: Attempt to put toddler to bed – complete teething meltdown.  Crying, screaming, the works.  We give him some Tylenol and do our best to comfort him.  He finally falls asleep at 9:45 pm. 

10:00 PM: I am looking at a midnight deadline for this post I haven’t been able to write – and I’m not feeling very juggle-it-all-y.  My living room looks like a tornado hit it, and I can’t think of a single thing I accomplished today. 

Tomorrow is another day.  

by on Mar. 12, 2012 at 12:00 AM
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elasmimi
by on Mar. 12, 2012 at 7:25 AM

Welcome to my world, lol. I always have good intentions, but all too frequently, my days go something like this one. Don't beat yourself up, we all have those days.

MamaBear2cubs
by Bronze Member on Mar. 12, 2012 at 9:15 AM

Sounds like my day lol.

goddess99
by Michelle on Mar. 12, 2012 at 9:27 AM

My dd is in school all day and dh is at work so my schedule is wide open =)

LancesMom
by Member on Mar. 12, 2012 at 10:00 AM

Boy does this sound familiar! LOL! HUgs!

gacgbaker
by on Mar. 12, 2012 at 10:26 AM

Just have to take things one at a time and do what you can- then let go of the rest....

Reina13
by Bronze Member on Mar. 12, 2012 at 10:54 AM

I often find myself wearing my bathrobe at 1:30pm

slw123
by on Mar. 12, 2012 at 11:33 AM

 Some days are just like that, it's ok.

bamababe1975
by on Mar. 12, 2012 at 11:33 AM

 LOL! I have more days like this than I care to count.

mommythree0508
by Member on Mar. 12, 2012 at 11:48 AM

 

Quoting MamaBear2cubs:

Sounds like my day lol.

 

momkaribg
by on Mar. 12, 2012 at 11:57 AM

TFS

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