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An Example of NOT Juggling It All

In my last post I neatly listed a set of goals that I try to accomplish each day in my quest to “juggle it all”.  I may have also mentioned that I don’t always meet those goals – but I think I came across as generally having it together.  Just in case anyone is worried about living up to the high standards I seem to be meeting regularly here in my domestic paradise, I thought I’d share a little bit about today.

7 AM: Partner wakes up and gets ready to go to work.  I am pregnancy-style EXHAUSTED and stay in bed while she not only gets herself ready for the day but takes the lead on getting our toddler dressed and giving him breakfast.

8:30 AM: Partner leaves and I peel myself out of bed.  I’m wearing a bathrobe as I help my toddler use the potty and then set him up with crayons so that I can check my email and work on the post for this series (I’d begun drafting something about making healthy meals from scratch a couple days ago).  Instead I buy a diaper bag we can’t really afford online.  Toddler is getting his second year molars and is moody, so peaceful coloring quickly devolves into throwing things around the room and shrieking.

11 AM: After some calming and cuddling of the toddler, I open the fridge to figure out what to do for lunch.  Thank goodness for leftovers.  I heat up some zucchini-corn chowder and a quinoa patty for him – and don’t argue about the amount of ketchup he insists on dumping on the patty. 

NOON: Wipe down kid, potty again, new diaper and put him down for a nap at 12:30.  He does not fall asleep without a fight.  A long, drawn out fight that leaves me wishing I could take a nap myself.

1:30 PM: Toddler is finally asleep.  I settle in hoping to finally get some writing done.  I am still wearing my bathrobe, when I remember I have a midwife appointment this afternoon – oops.  I jump in the shower and finish getting dressed just as my cranky boy is waking up (I swear these naps are getting shorter and shorter). 

3:00 PM: I am getting the toddler dressed and pottied as my partner arrives home (of course she didn’t forget about our appointment).  She finishes wrangling the kid while I scramble looking for my pregnancy binder and gathering my diaper bag, keys, and wallet. 

4:00 PM: Midwife appointment.  Baby looks great, I’m feeling healthy, glucose test coming up next month – no major news or worries.  My partner entertains our toddler during the appointment so that I can give the midwife my full attention.

5:00 PM: We are on our way back home and I don’t have a plan for dinner.  We swing by and grab a pizza on our way (It’s a vegetable now, right?).

7:00 PM: Pizza has been eaten and my partner gives the toddler his bath and gets him ready for bed as I stare blankly at the post that is due today. 

8:00 PM: Attempt to put toddler to bed – complete teething meltdown.  Crying, screaming, the works.  We give him some Tylenol and do our best to comfort him.  He finally falls asleep at 9:45 pm. 

10:00 PM: I am looking at a midnight deadline for this post I haven’t been able to write – and I’m not feeling very juggle-it-all-y.  My living room looks like a tornado hit it, and I can’t think of a single thing I accomplished today. 

Tomorrow is another day.  

by on Mar. 12, 2012 at 12:00 AM
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by Bronze Member on Mar. 14, 2012 at 10:10 AM

I hope that today goes better for you, but really your day just sounds like a typical day.  Enjoy the little guy while you can, when they are older and out on their own, you have more free time, but sometimes miss these busy days.

by on Mar. 14, 2012 at 10:16 AM

 LOL ! Thanks for helping me feel more human and less defective. I was how is that all possible ! LOL !

by on Mar. 14, 2012 at 10:17 AM

I thought I was juggling it all yesterday until my friend asked me to take her to the store and then didnt want to leave my house for the rest of the day.

by on Mar. 14, 2012 at 10:19 AM


Quoting Reina13:

I often find myself wearing my bathrobe at 1:30pm

 This is totally me on the weekends ! LOL !

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by on Mar. 14, 2012 at 10:23 AM

 I am a full-time work away from the home Mommy and my MIL watchs DS while we are at work. He claims she does nothing all day, but I am constantly trying to tell him that its hard work. He needs to read this blog! LOL !

I wish I could stay home with DS.....but part of me thinks that DH will think I am not doing anything all day...and its upsetting.

by on Mar. 14, 2012 at 10:47 AM
That sounds like most Mommy days to me! Be thankful you have a partner who remembers things at least, lol.
by Bronze Member on Mar. 14, 2012 at 1:21 PM

we all have those days hang in there

by on Mar. 14, 2012 at 1:22 PM
I can so relate to this!! I often feel like I need to redo the day just to get something done!
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by on Mar. 14, 2012 at 1:38 PM

My kids are in school and dh at work.. so I can pretty much do what I want when I want

by on Mar. 14, 2012 at 6:26 PM

LOL.. sounds familiar. Sometimes even if you have everything planned out it doesnt work out. Kids have a way of deciding our days for us sometimes. LOL. 

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