He has lots of good qualities too. Like today he printed me up some patterns he found of easy things that I could sew and possibly sell, but he just leaves all his s*** around and expects me to pick up after him. He is an adult, not one of my children, kwim? He takes off his shirt and socks all the time and just leaves them in the family room. Today when I asked him to pick up after himself he was quick to point out the things that I haven't gotten around to doing yet and all my faults. It's not like I don't cook, clean, do laundry, take care of the dogs and the kids. So what if I don't work outside of the house, I'm on disability and can't work a normal job, it's not like I sit on the couch all day and eat bon bons while he works 10 hour days at a job he hates. A little appreciation for the things I do do and not so much focus on what I haven't done would be nice, urrrgh. I just want to slam my head into a brick wall sometimes, I won't but you get the idea. And for those of you who say just don't pick up after him, the house would look messy all the time if I just left his s*** and the kids s*** lying around, at least with the kids I can get them to pick up after themselves, he is a stubborn a$$ who will never change. Thanks for letting me vent and any advice on how to deal with a stubborn husband who doesn't do squat around the house but expects me to do everything, would be nice.