I have a friend who is a young mom. The father and her are no longer together and has refused to get on bc. They broke up like two months ago, and she has been with two other guys within that time. She does not have a vehicle or a stable place to live. Right now she is mooching off a friend that is housing her and her son. She just told me she is pregnant again, and I am livid because she will have two kids under 20 and doesn't even have a vehicle to haul them around or get herself to appointments. She refuses to get w job and is trying to claim the the father of her first child is the daddy also. Sadly, I know that's not true. I don't know how to help her, I want to be a good friend but how can I be when she is constantly getting messed up and leaving her child with whoever. Ughh!! I think I would be more supportive if she was Willing to get a job and stop mooching? The father of her first child has no idea she's been with two other people and I am good friends with the father. I am torn, do I tell him it might not be his? Ugh sorry. Thank you for letting me vent, the father has asked me to be there for her, and I just dont feel like i can be, she is to irresponsible and unwilling to help her child.