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Surviving the Grocery Store When You're Not Alone

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When I was younger I used to dream of vacations to far off places, entire days spent at the spa or grand adventures with fascinating people. Now my grandest dream and ambition is to go to the grocery store by myself, to be able to read labels, compare brands and spend an indulgent amount of time in the magazine aisle catching up celebrity gossip and fashion. Alas the grocery store by myself will remain a far off dream for now but in the mean time I've come up with a few clever ways to make the grocery store less stressful with little ones in tow.


  • Feed everyone before you go. Everyone has made the mistake at one time or another of going to the grocery store hungry. You end up buying everything and none of it is very healthy or practical. I have a very budget conscious friend who claims that "$5 for a little something to eat before heading to the grocery store will save you $20 in impulse purchases." Obviously it's cheaper to eat at home but that's not always a reality. Making sure you and your kids are fed will cut down on unessecary purchases and whining (from all of you.)
  • Make visual shopping lists. When my daugther was younger I would cut and paste photos of the things we needed to buy from store circulars and put her in charge of finding them. It kept her distracted, busy and feeling important and gave her something to hold so she wasn't tearing ceareal boxes off the shelf.
  • Put older kids in charge of 'The List.' Now that my daugther is older, I put her in charge of checking off our list. She loves walking down the aisles putting little checks next to the items we've found and scolding me when I make a purchase that isn't on 'The List.' Need to keep your grocery shopping in check? Bring along my bossy seven year old.
  • Allow your child to pick between a few things. I'm so not on board with bribing kids with treats in order to get good behavior out of them, I'm not saying I'm above it, I'm just saying I'd rather avoid it. Give your kids choices on little things (strawberry or blueberry yogurt?) and they'll feel like an important and involved part of the process and in my experince are less likely to ask for forbidden treats later on since they got to pick out what they wanted from 'The List.'

Obviously every child is different and I'm sure I'll have to tweak and mold my strategy as my baby gets older, but these tips and tricks got me through some marathon grocery shopping trips with a toddler in tow.

Do you have any tricks of your own?

by on Mar. 29, 2012 at 12:00 AM
Replies (31-40):
millerbunch
by on Mar. 31, 2012 at 3:47 PM

yes.. same here.. and i still do it..LOL

Quoting Wish2Be:

 I cant tell you how many times my mother told me NOT to shop for food when I am hungry. I find that I spend so much more money when that happens. LOL !


millerbunch
by on Mar. 31, 2012 at 3:50 PM

i love those little carts..lol

 you do not see them around here veyr much anymore.

Quoting suziejax:

One store in my city has little kid shopping carts that your little one can push around while you push yours and its just big enough to put a few things in.. I used to also use that as a way. I would have my dd help me and push her own cart along side of mommy and she felt so grown up at age 4 lol as she put an item I needed in her own big girl cart lol


millerbunch
by on Mar. 31, 2012 at 3:52 PM

our Krogers here has those "car"carts.. and my son loves "driving" it around the store..lol  it helps to put him in there, strap him in and give him a juice box and he loves being able to sit there and play with the steering wheel.

splatz
by Sarah on Mar. 31, 2012 at 7:50 PM

We do most of the same. Minus the visual lists. 

Bmat
by Bronze Member on Mar. 31, 2012 at 8:32 PM

The kids are responsible for pushing the cart. This keeps little hands occupied.

Bmat
by Bronze Member on Mar. 31, 2012 at 8:33 PM

Since I try to combine trips to save gas, it always seems as though I shop when I am hungry- which is a mistake.

Quoting millerbunch:

yes.. same here.. and i still do it..LOL

Quoting Wish2Be:

 I cant tell you how many times my mother told me NOT to shop for food when I am hungry. I find that I spend so much more money when that happens. LOL !



Bmat
by Bronze Member on Mar. 31, 2012 at 8:34 PM

I don't see them around here anymore.  What they have here are carts that have a child-sized car in front that two toddlers can sit in and the mom pushes.

Quoting millerbunch:

i love those little carts..lol

 you do not see them around here veyr much anymore.

Quoting suziejax:

One store in my city has little kid shopping carts that your little one can push around while you push yours and its just big enough to put a few things in.. I used to also use that as a way. I would have my dd help me and push her own cart along side of mommy and she felt so grown up at age 4 lol as she put an item I needed in her own big girl cart lol



millerbunch
by on Mar. 31, 2012 at 8:54 PM

yep, these are the ones we have at our Kroger.. my son loves to ride in them..

Quoting Bmat:

I don't see them around here anymore.  What they have here are carts that have a child-sized car in front that two toddlers can sit in and the mom pushes.

Quoting millerbunch:

i love those little carts..lol

 you do not see them around here veyr much anymore.

Quoting suziejax:

One store in my city has little kid shopping carts that your little one can push around while you push yours and its just big enough to put a few things in.. I used to also use that as a way. I would have my dd help me and push her own cart along side of mommy and she felt so grown up at age 4 lol as she put an item I needed in her own big girl cart lol




KristinRox
by on Mar. 31, 2012 at 9:12 PM

We play games. Like find boxes that are green. Find things that are round. Or the abc game. First you find something that starts with A.. then B.. then C.. on and on and on. 

KristinRox
by on Mar. 31, 2012 at 9:14 PM

Me too.. I always spend way too much when Im hungry. 

Quoting Wish2Be:

 I cant tell you how many times my mother told me NOT to shop for food when I am hungry. I find that I spend so much more money when that happens. LOL !


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