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over the weekend, me and my boys and my boyfriend went on a mini-vacay.. while walking thru the aquarium, every chance I got I was kissing him and grabbing his butt.. not in front of people, secretly, like when we would turn a corner or something.. and he goes

"you're a little but pervy in public.."

I was thinking WTF? Is this uncommon? Do people not want to touch their SOs?? I'm confused. I mean we've been together for 2 1/2 years, but I only recently introduced him to my kids and my family, so up until the past 8 months, we havent spent a ton of time outside of quiet dates and late nights together..

Am I weird?

by on Apr. 5, 2012 at 12:15 AM
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by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 8:17 PM
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Lol we will be married 26 yrs in aug and have 7 kids. We touch all the time. Hold hands & kiss not make out. It has always been that way,our first 4 kids have known nothing else. Our last 3 were adopted almost 1 yr ago and at first I think they were taking back by it. They came from a very rough home life were every BF & GF was now their step parent. Now my kids are learning "parents stick around " and what is really ok.
So I bet at 20 yrs you will still love it.

Quoting RMslady:

My dh and I do it. After 4 years of marriage and 2 children later what's wrong with showing people how in love we still are? I hope yo still be doing it 20 years from now. We don't over do it though like 5 minute make outs sessions lol that's more giddy high school girl stuff to me.

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by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 8:19 PM
I don't really like to have PDA and I hate to see it some people really get out of control with it too. Public spaces and sexual/physical affection do not mix.
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by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 8:22 PM

Me and my Dh do it from time to time, but not all the time. But when he comes home EVERYONE is PDA crazed no one cares haha no matter what you do as long as it isnt like a grope fest but lotsof kisses and hugs at redeployment ceremonies! So to me as long as your not like border line soft core porn its ok

by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 8:22 PM

 My husband of 17 year and I met in a Grocery Store when I got "caught" checking out his butt when he walked by.   Now I can not resist patting that beautiful bottom every chance I get.    We also hold hands or bump shoulders when we are walking in public.   in love

by Bronze Member on Apr. 6, 2012 at 8:23 PM

 no i kiss my husband and slap his butt in public lol

by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 8:30 PM
I kiss in public and nibble on his neck
by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 8:49 PM
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Quoting inpraize:

14 Years 11 months exactly between myself and df :)
Kuddos to you for 20 years and still showing your affection!!
by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 8:50 PM
My husband is not interested in anything, not holding hands, we never kiss, nothing, not in private or public. Glad you still feel good about each other. I love seeing people holding hands, and a quick peck, but beyond they, I agree that you shouldn't be groping body parts, ESP in a place kids are, like aquariums.
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by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 8:51 PM

No. How is that weird? My man is the one is not shy about showing me some love when we're out in public. For me...I don't like it. I'll hugg him and hold his hand..but sometimes he wants to kiss for a good throwing a scam...I don't like doing that in public...I find it disrespectful in front of other people....kwim??? yeah....And I HATE it when he touches my butt in public...makes me feel like a slut...I don't like that...I dont even like it when he does it at home cuz he'll slap it really hard. That hurts! I'm pretty much shy about no...i don't really show him love like that in public...

by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 9:10 PM
I absolutely hate pda!! I hate to do it and hate to see ppl do it! Its disrepectful n gross! Not talking about a little peck or hugs but eww some ppl go way to far!
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