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over the weekend, me and my boys and my boyfriend went on a mini-vacay.. while walking thru the aquarium, every chance I got I was kissing him and grabbing his butt.. not in front of people, secretly, like when we would turn a corner or something.. and he goes

"you're a little but pervy in public.."

I was thinking WTF? Is this uncommon? Do people not want to touch their SOs?? I'm confused. I mean we've been together for 2 1/2 years, but I only recently introduced him to my kids and my family, so up until the past 8 months, we havent spent a ton of time outside of quiet dates and late nights together..

Am I weird?

by on Apr. 5, 2012 at 12:15 AM
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by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 9:20 PM

I don't like PDA it makes me uncomfortable for some reason.  Always has, probably always will.  We hold hands sometimes in public and a quick kiss goodbye, but no making out our groping each other.  I think it's disrespectful to others, we DON'T want to see that.

by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 9:21 PM
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not at all i am the same way and i  have been with my husband for 8 yearsi think it keeps the spark alive we both do it to each other

by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 9:25 PM

winkMy grandparents were a great example of PDA . They were always kissing and giving hugs to each other and all of us. They had 15 kids. They showed us what love is all about. They were married 62 years.

by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 9:25 PM

No youre not. My husband and I hold hands and kiss in public. And when we think no one else is watching my grab eachothers butts.

by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 9:26 PM
My baby isn't big on pda either but that dosent stop me from grabbing his butt when no one is looking!! I wish he would do it a lil more often to me bc I like it :-) however if we have had a few drinks he has no problem grabbing mine!!
by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 9:33 PM
DH is like that. Hugs & kisses when people are around or a "fondle fantasy" when he thinks no one is looking.
by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 9:53 PM
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I'm not but my husband does it anyway
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by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 10:13 PM

my husband wishes that i would do more pda with him in public lol. people are just to tight about things now

by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 10:15 PM

I'd prefer to see a pda more than seeing some guy beat his wife on the front lawn.

I come from a long line of hugger!  I don't like when others overdue it in public. No hands down or up...Just tasteful spontaneous type displays. Hugs, hand holding kisses...nothing that remotely looks like a porno move.

Still I know their are people who don't like PDA and are uncomfortable with should ask him- he may be one of them. If you have been in public together before the introductions how did you handle it then? That would be what he expects I imagine.

by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 10:24 PM

Always, he tends to push it further by grabbing my butt and what not. He's notorious for caressing my back as we stroll along shopping or grabs me from behind and kisses my neck if i'm say, looking at the produce lol, we are very sensual no matter where we are but we aren't grinding in public in front of people (not saying he hasn't grinded up on me in the icecream aisle ;) hahaha) and i don't blame him, I'm friggin sexy

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