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over the weekend, me and my boys and my boyfriend went on a mini-vacay.. while walking thru the aquarium, every chance I got I was kissing him and grabbing his butt.. not in front of people, secretly, like when we would turn a corner or something.. and he goes

"you're a little but pervy in public.."

I was thinking WTF? Is this uncommon? Do people not want to touch their SOs?? I'm confused. I mean we've been together for 2 1/2 years, but I only recently introduced him to my kids and my family, so up until the past 8 months, we havent spent a ton of time outside of quiet dates and late nights together..

Am I weird?

by on Apr. 5, 2012 at 12:15 AM
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by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 10:29 PM

 We do little minor things-hand holding, quick kisses or an arm around the waist...

by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 10:36 PM

no you are not weird i am the same way with my hubby and  he is the same as your SO some people are just not that in to pda it really depends on the person. that does not make you weird though!! you just have a different view on PDA like I do..

by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 10:38 PM
I love when my husband hugs and kisses me in public.
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by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 10:43 PM

 Maybe he's afraid that your kids would see and that makes him uncomfortable?

DH and I are always pda-ing lol secretly though, when we know no one is watching...

by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 11:13 PM
i love pda my hubbys so not affectionate especilly in public I dont think you are weird
by Member on Apr. 6, 2012 at 11:17 PM
I don't like PDA
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by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 11:30 PM
If I grab his butt in public I get told wrong side but we don't usually do more that hold hands.
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by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 11:30 PM

My dearly departed Grandparents even after 55 years of marriage they were still had PDA almost anywhere. My DH and I PDA,  whereas my mom and step-dad forget it, it would embarrass my mom. So even those who grew up with PDA still don't like it. Me I think it is fine as long as it isn't "get a room" bad.

by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 11:45 PM

No, you are not weird at all (well, maybe but not for this reason! hee hee).  A tasteful PDA is just a reinforcement of your affection to one another.  Holding hands, sneaking a kiss, a pat on the butt are all great ways to let your SO know you are thinking of them. 

by on Apr. 7, 2012 at 1:12 AM

I am always and constantly grabby mmy DH's butt. Also, when he graduates from boot camp later this month, you can bet your sweet ass I'm gonna partake in some PDA.

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