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On My Guilty Habit

Posted by on Apr. 12, 2012 at 12:00 AM
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Last week, we spoke about our food "deal breakers" the stuff that we absolutely cannot abide, when it comes to our kids. I loved reading your comments, as well! Since we're in such a sharing mood, I thought I would share a confession, as it relates to food. You see, while we try to stay balanced with regard to the food we have in our house, when I am at work, well, it's a different story.

Perhaps it's rationalization, perhaps it's the hectic workday pace, or some exciting combination of the two, but I find myself eating differently while I'm in the office. I mean, yes, I generally still have a reasonably healthy salad for lunch, but it's just that from around 10 AM onward, I turn into some sort of voracious snackmonster. Chips! These tiny delicious mints! A cookie the size of my head!  AN ACTUAL, LITERAL BARREL OF (HONEY WHEAT) PRETZELS. They are all invited to the party on my desk! Oh, and let's not forget the assorted showers, parties, and birthdays that carry with them a whole host of baked goods, and the occasional ice cream cake. It's a wonder I don't keel over from some sort of sugar shock.

After all that, I then come home and hide my sordid little secret with roasted carrots, and Brussels sprouts, and baked chicken. All of which I really ENJOY, mind you,and absolutely love eating and making, but my guilty conscience kind of weighs on my mind. I don't really worry about my kids being sheltered from junk food, and not knowing how to handle themselves in the real world, or anything like that. (Like I mentioned, we do have some junk in the house.) I just feel this vague sense of remorse, since I tend to eat mayyyyybe on the...not so great side during the day, all the while striving for a real sense of balance at home.

I wonder if any other parents face this. Maybe it's more prevalent for parents like me, who work outside the home (all the easier to hide the guilty-making treats!), but I suppose pretty much any parent, despite the healthy food they put out for their kids, can have their own guilty snacks, when they're kids aren't looking.

What about you? Are you generally consistent in your eating habits, or do you occasionally sneak  something you wouldn't keep in the house/give your kids?

by on Apr. 12, 2012 at 12:00 AM
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goddess99
by Michelle on Apr. 12, 2012 at 12:23 AM

I'm pretty consistent. I always hide my snicker wrappers in the same place, my car's garbage bag. *sigh

Janet
by Ruby Member on Apr. 12, 2012 at 11:20 AM

 I have a secret hiding place. I wait until they are in bed or in school. :(

amy7243
by on Apr. 12, 2012 at 11:57 AM

 Me too!!!!

Quoting Janet:

 I have a secret hiding place. I wait until they are in bed or in school. :(

 

Janet
by Ruby Member on Apr. 12, 2012 at 12:00 PM

 Good to know I'm not the only one. :)

Quoting amy7243:

 Me too!!!!

Quoting Janet:

 I have a secret hiding place. I wait until they are in bed or in school. :(

 

 

MamaBear2cubs
by Bronze Member on Apr. 12, 2012 at 12:24 PM

I hide my soda lol if that counts.

slw123
by on Apr. 12, 2012 at 12:51 PM

I have my moments when I am a food sneak, lol.  But I'm an adult and I am making that choice fully understanding what the consequences are.  Coke Icees and chocolate anything are my main downfalls.  Ugh.  But I try not to indulge too often.

Charizma77
by Carissa on Apr. 12, 2012 at 1:11 PM
When dh and I go out alone we will indulge in a good dessert that's expensive and fattening, it's a good thing we don't go out alone very often..lol
KaylaMillar
by on Apr. 12, 2012 at 1:34 PM
I hide stuff that I don't want them eating :-/
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MamaMandee
by on Apr. 12, 2012 at 1:59 PM
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I dont really not allow or hide anything. I do allow the kids and I both to have special treats here and there. 

gacgbaker
by on Apr. 12, 2012 at 2:01 PM

Usually we save treats for special occasions like birthdays and holidays- other then that we do ok.  



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