Anyone ever moved to another state away from grandparents? Need advice.
My husband has been looking for a new job. He applied for a job in NC (we are currently in NY) and they asked him to interview. We told both our parents about the interview, who live very close to us right now. My mother was fine with it as my brother lives in NC and eventually she will move down there someday. However, his parents are fuming mad because if we move away then we will be taking there only grandchild with us. I feel horrible that they are so upset and it is weighing heavy on our decision to move if my husband gets the job. I feel they are being a bit selfish in this whole matter but I also understand where they are coming from. I don't know what to do or say to make this situation any smoother. Any advice or experiences you can share that might help me!! I have had such anxiety over this whole thing. Thanks.
They are not in a position to move also, at least not for a few more years.