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Do I talk to him?

Posted by on Apr. 15, 2012 at 11:16 AM
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So a couple weeks ago I found a box of cigerattes in our car. I asked my husband about it cause he was there when I found em, he said he was hiding them for his best friend who didn't want his parents to know that he smoked. Im not totally sure if I believe him cause he seemed really jumpy when I found em. It's been bugging me and I don't know if I should just drop it and believe what he says or talk to him =/
So you know, I'm against cigerattes because my grandpa died of lung cancer, I got asthma cause I lived in a building where people smoke and my sister gets sick a lot cause her immunity is weak cause of living in the building. I also don't think kids should grow up around smokers or drugs. I don't know what to do =/
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millermom07
by on Apr. 15, 2012 at 11:21 AM
If its something that is still bothering you, then I say talk to him. That's what works best in our marriage. He always knows when something is bothering me and says he'd rather I talk to him than walk around mad/sad/etc. And honestly, you won't be happy around him until you know the answer. It will eat you up. And I hope he's the kind of person who understands why you bring it back up.
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MistressMinerva
by Jennifer on Apr. 15, 2012 at 1:56 PM

If it bothers you that much I would talk with him. 

OliviasMommy611
by on Apr. 15, 2012 at 3:03 PM
Talk to him.
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Janet
by Ruby Member on Apr. 15, 2012 at 3:41 PM

 Yes, I would just talk to him about it.

mom2gr8tgirls
by on Apr. 15, 2012 at 3:44 PM

Definitely talk to him.

jltplk25
by Gold Member on Apr. 15, 2012 at 3:45 PM
This.

Quoting MistressMinerva:

If it bothers you that much I would talk with him. 

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goddess99
by Michelle on Apr. 15, 2012 at 5:21 PM

You can usually tell a smoker cause they stink. If he doesn't stink like a smoker I would let it go.

imamom88
by on Apr. 15, 2012 at 6:59 PM

I would just talk to him. I wouldn't going to saying stuff like "i know your smoking". But i would remind why you dont like smoking and what it means to you. Tell him you want him not to lie to you. Lieing does not help anything. I would try to work it out.

javamom12
by on Apr. 15, 2012 at 9:26 PM

Talk to him about it, if he has nothing to hide it shouldn't bother him.

splatz
by Sarah on Apr. 16, 2012 at 12:19 AM
This.

Quoting javamom12:

Talk to him about it, if he has nothing to hide it shouldn't bother him.

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