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Need to vent! I've had a really bad day....

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I just need a place to vent really bad.I am just having a bad day and need a place to say what I feel.

I am so having a bad day today... To start with I got up late and got a late start on things and i've felt off ever since because of it. and then later on we finally go out the door to take ds to the doctor today. I had to get my meds for my IBS from the pharmacy by noon. so dh dropped me and ds off at the doctor and went back to the pharmacy, he was there for like 30 mins and when he got back to the doctor's office i found out why. he told me that the price of my IBS meds had went way up and that after this month I won't be able to afford that brand of meds. So basically I'll have to get my doctor to give me a different one for it. What's really got me going right still, even hours later is that my dh said something to the pharmacist to get them to say to him that they were calling my doctor about it Monday and they were going to try and get the doctor to switch my meds to a different one because of the price of the meds. and i'm all like well how in the heck can they even do that i wasn't there to even ask them about? how you tell what to do with my meds? he was pissed cause I was pissed to no end about them trying to change my meds... it just doesn't seem right that they are doing that with my meds and i wasn't there to ask to them to do it...

dose that seem right or ok to anyone here? it doesn't seem right to me at all because it's my meds and i wasn't there to ok them to call my doctor next week.... I have like a million phone calls to make Monday morning when the doctor's office and pharmacy open up... I don't want them switching my meds... I want what I know works for me. this is bull! that's all i'm going to say about it....

ok vent over no bashing please....

devil

by on Apr. 28, 2012 at 4:44 PM
Replies (11-20):
Kat1127
by on Apr. 28, 2012 at 7:08 PM


Quoting rigosgurl:

They can since ur husband gave them permission. Dont knw what u can do if the price went up and u cant afford it.


Well btw my dh  is the one who desided we can't afford it not us. he makes alot of choices for me. i hate it it's not far to me...

justkeeplaughin
by on Apr. 28, 2012 at 7:14 PM
You think that is bad....when I had my son 10 years ago at the age of 27 my OB wouldn't let me tie my tubes without my husbands permission because "we" may decide to have more children! I already had a set of twins and a son 13 months later! The procedure had already been approved thru my insurance. I needed my spouses permission! REALLY! Now that was messed up!

Quoting Kat1127:



Quoting justkeeplaughin:

Check a different pharmacy before you try another brand. Sometimes they have different prices on meds.


Well like i said i have a million phone calls to make monday, but really i'm not sure that will help much because dh said that pharmicist told him that pharmasutical co rasied the price. and if he's right then i don't understand why it could be cheaper anywhere else... but i plan on getting up early monday and if i have to takeing a break from classes, since they are online anyway and making as many phone calls i can.


but ya know the part that pisses me off the most about the thing today. is that it's ok for them to do that even though i wasn't there to tell them it was ok... this is bull....


well thanks for the idea and idk but i'm going to see what i can do.. thanks...

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Kat1127
by on Apr. 28, 2012 at 7:20 PM

well neither one is really far, but when it comes it comes to you have kids if you're married that one with your ob kinda makes since though... but come on my issue does not affect him at all it only affects my body. and he should not be able to speak for me and tell the pharmistis in any way shape or form what to do about my meds... that in it's self is not far to me... it's my body not his... it has nothing to do with his future at all only mine... now weather or not you have anymore kids should be between you and your husband not just you... now if you wanna talk about personally if i didn't wanna have any more kids i'd just stay on bc and not worry about getting my tubes tided but that's your business not mine, i'm just saying unless it's for health reasons there are other anwsers.... but to each their own...

Quoting justkeeplaughin:

You think that is bad....when I had my son 10 years ago at the age of 27 my OB wouldn't let me tie my tubes without my husbands permission because "we" may decide to have more children! I already had a set of twins and a son 13 months later! The procedure had already been approved thru my insurance. I needed my spouses permission! REALLY! Now that was messed up!

Quoting Kat1127:

 


Quoting justkeeplaughin:

Check a different pharmacy before you try another brand. Sometimes they have different prices on meds.


Well like i said i have a million phone calls to make monday, but really i'm not sure that will help much because dh said that pharmicist told him that pharmasutical co rasied the price. and if he's right then i don't understand why it could be cheaper anywhere else... but i plan on getting up early monday and if i have to takeing a break from classes, since they are online anyway and making as many phone calls i can.


but ya know the part that pisses me off the most about the thing today. is that it's ok for them to do that even though i wasn't there to tell them it was ok... this is bull....


well thanks for the idea and idk but i'm going to see what i can do.. thanks...


delanna6two
by Platinum Member on Apr. 29, 2012 at 9:25 AM

Hope you are able to work things out.

shadow_lark
by Bronze Member on Apr. 29, 2012 at 10:45 AM
It does affect him though. he has to pay for those medications. if you continue with that prescription, what else is going to have to go to make up for the cost? maybe he should have talked to you but it really sounds like he was just trying to help.

Quoting Kat1127:

well neither one is really far, but when it comes it comes to you have kids if you're married that one with your ob kinda makes since though... but come on my issue does not affect him at all it only affects my body. and he should not be able to speak for me and tell the pharmistis in any way shape or form what to do about my meds... that in it's self is not far to me... it's my body not his... it has nothing to do with his future at all only mine... now weather or not you have anymore kids should be between you and your husband not just you... now if you wanna talk about personally if i didn't wanna have any more kids i'd just stay on bc and not worry about getting my tubes tided but that's your business not mine, i'm just saying unless it's for health reasons there are other anwsers.... but to each their own...


Quoting justkeeplaughin:

You think that is bad....when I had my son 10 years ago at the age of 27 my OB wouldn't let me tie my tubes without my husbands permission because "we" may decide to have more children! I already had a set of twins and a son 13 months later! The procedure had already been approved thru my insurance. I needed my spouses permission! REALLY! Now that was messed up!


Quoting Kat1127:


 



Quoting justkeeplaughin:

Check a different pharmacy before you try another brand. Sometimes they have different prices on meds.



Well like i said i have a million phone calls to make monday, but really i'm not sure that will help much because dh said that pharmicist told him that pharmasutical co rasied the price. and if he's right then i don't understand why it could be cheaper anywhere else... but i plan on getting up early monday and if i have to takeing a break from classes, since they are online anyway and making as many phone calls i can.



but ya know the part that pisses me off the most about the thing today. is that it's ok for them to do that even though i wasn't there to tell them it was ok... this is bull....



well thanks for the idea and idk but i'm going to see what i can do.. thanks...



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KarenMarie35
by on Apr. 29, 2012 at 12:49 PM

 I hope things look better today and they work out for the best!

blondie805
by on Apr. 29, 2012 at 7:07 PM

Take a breath hugsbump You know what you want and you have gotten yourself help before. You can do this! I can't blame you for being angry. I'd be livid myself! You are in my prayers and I pray that you will be healed and that you will have your heart settled. Good luck and keep me posted.

Pammi86
by Pamela on Apr. 29, 2012 at 10:12 PM

Sorry! I get the issue with meds! These pharmacies are always doing this to me bc of insurance and it sucks!

Kat1127
by on Apr. 29, 2012 at 11:14 PM


Quoting Pammi86:

Sorry! I get the issue with meds! These pharmacies are always doing this to me bc of insurance and it sucks!


Well my issue isn't insurance at all. i don't even have insurance. my issue is i'm piss poor and i feel like i was done wrong by dh and the pharmacy... i feel like the pharmacy guy shouldn't be able to do what he said he'd do monday morning because i didn't give him the ok to call the docotor... i mean really is that even legal people?

Pammi86
by Pamela on Apr. 29, 2012 at 11:16 PM

I don't have insurance either. In that case they really jerk you around! Its so wrong how people with no insurance are treated! We can't afford insurance for me bc pre exsiting health conditions!

Quoting Kat1127:


Quoting Pammi86:

Sorry! I get the issue with meds! These pharmacies are always doing this to me bc of insurance and it sucks!


Well my issue isn't insurance at all. i don't even have insurance. my issue is i'm piss poor and i feel like i was done wrong by dh and the pharmacy... i feel like the pharmacy guy shouldn't be able to do what he said he'd do monday morning because i didn't give him the ok to call the docotor... i mean really is that even legal people?


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