Today is dh birthday and he is being a complete jerk! He hates his birthday and thinks it is stupid that I do anything for it. Last year I didnt bother throwing him a birthday party, and he got pissed off saying that I obviously dont care about him! So this year I planned a small party with just us and my family, because he doesnt get along very well with his family, but when I told him this he got even more mad because apparently I hate his family and they are important too him. Now I have every reason to hate his family but that is a different story. I do not hate his family and have tried many times to mediate with them because he has a hard time vocalizing his thoughts and feelings. But yeah. Today he is mad again because I did invite his family, they are coming over tomorrow!! I was like wtf and now we are supposed to be going shopping for food, not for his birthday but just food in general and he wont go. He did his laundry last night and forgot to put it in the dryer and instead of him just going to put it in or ask me to do it he is saying that i am ungrateful because i didnt just go do it!! I am a working sahm i work nights and am up all day with our kids and cooking and cleaning. So i dont know why i am the one that needs to be greatful! I love my husband and he is great 364/365 days a year so please dont tell me to get a divorce or anything crazy like that. I just need advice on how to deal with him today.
Today was a raging success! My miserable husband actually had a good time! I am very glad to see that my efforts arent in vain. He even helped me clean up!!
I do have the best husband ever!!!!!!! :D
on May. 5, 2012 at 12:07 PM