After the birth of my 3rd baby, getting the baby weight and belly off been a bigger challenge then it ever was with my other 2 where I bounced back! Before babies I was a slender 108lbs at 5.4. After my 3rd I weighed in at a whopping 160lbs!!! I was so umcomfortable in my own skin and refused to have a sex life because I thought if I looked this ugly to me, my husband could not see! It caused marriage problems and depression! However 6 months later and lots of hard work and dieting I am back down 25lbs!! Still have about 12 lbs to go before I am happy with the weight loss but I look good to everyone but myself! My legs and arms and even booty have gone back to the way I like it, but taking my shirt off is a shame...my stomach is just jelly! I do cardio, abs, and all sorts on a daily basis for an hour a day and eat right, yet it remains to stare me in the mirror everyday! It still has me self consious and showing my hubby he says it doesnt look like fat so much as excess skin, well if thats the case its not going away with working out. I need HELP! True mommy suggestions for controlling the tummy and regaining my confidence. It sounds soo old school but has anyone tried the after baby tummy control tank tops? or any product thats helped them regain some of there figure back? I am not overweight, I am back at a very healthy weight range and my whole body looks back to normal but my stomach!! We are not done having kids, we want one more in about 5 years or so, so I dont want surgery to fix it but something along with dieting and exercise will make me not have a flubber gut! Its horrible! Its ruining my ability to have a sex life and even has me not wanting to attend my best friends wedding where I will run into countless past high school friends :( I knew that I would keep stretch marks, never thought I would keep a belly!!!!!