My s.i.l. left my brother and her 3 children to go with her boyfriend claiming a mid-life crisis . Now that she has run out of money she is demanding to come back . Does anyone know how to file abandonment of the home charges . She left him with a 18 month old ,11, yr old and a 15 yr old . My brother is just too nice and she does what she wants with him, but I think he has finally had enough. If anyone has any advice please help . Thank you.