See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
So I may sound like a nut case but I need somewhere to see if anyone has gone through this. My six year old son and I are living on our own. I in the last say six months left his father who I was with for ten and half years. He has four other children 19,16, 14 and almost 13. the16 and down lived with me. I was there mother for a decade. So in Jan. the girls went to live with there mom who was never a part of there life in the whole decade. Fine people move on its good for her to finally be a parent. My ex was screwing some chick who use to live across the street. My son and I moved 220 miles away my choice to get away. His father didn't talk to him for over a month and may not call him for a about 10 min a couple times a month. The girls Skyped with there lil brother for about a month, they quit calling and texting me. I think my feelings are hurt that they didn't wish me happy mothers day. When I personally have done so much over the years. But I'm more pissed because I keep texting them every few days to call there brother he even tries to call them with no answer. We both leave messages to call. I feel bad that he would like to talk to them but they seem to not care about the little guy. I'm lost at how to answer his questions, Even about his Pop not calling him, in a way I see hurt and I try to do things to focus on me and him. What do you say to a kid who has had a big family and sibbling's around his whole life and then there gone and forget all about him? I know it's not right it makes me cry but for him I try to stay strong. Does anyone have any advice, because I just want to block all of them from our life so if and when they feel the need to communicate they can't.