my 4 year old has been afraid of her room at night for months and I keep thinking its just a phase and she'll grow out of it. It's actually gotten worse It used to be that every morning we wake up to her crawling in bed with us but now it's like every night she starts crying and wants to sleep with us. It makes us feel so bad that we let her sleep with us sometimes but I don't want this to become a habit. our sex life is disappering before our eyes we try to get creative but no where is safe because if she notices we are gone she follows. I'm getting cranky. lol I need my sexy time. we've put christmas lights in her room and she has this really cool blue light that pretty much lights up her room and we have put a tv in there so she can watch movies if she wants. I've run out of ideas and this mommy needs some quality time with her hubby any ideas?