Need advice

[shannonre]

My kids dad recently got a serious girlfriend. Even though we have been broken up for a while I am a little hurt by this. He says he loves her and he take our kids to spend time with her and her children. I am just wondering if I should meet her, I feel like I should because my kids are going over there. My kids are 2 and 3. Thanks for any suggestions you may have!

[miz2hijo89]

IN MY OPINION YES-ITS ALWAYS GOOD TO HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH UR KIDS DAD AND IF AT ALL POSSIBLE WITH THE PERSON THEY END UP WITH-YOU DONT HAVE TO LIKE HER JUST BE NICE.....SAY GOES FOR HER!!!

[shannonre]

Their dad and I are good friends. I just thought we would get back together and she kinda came out of no where.

[MistressMinerva]

I would want to meet her if she is going to be around your kids alot.

[jltplk25]

Anyone that would be around my children like that, yeah I would want to meet.

[goddess99]

I would meet her.

[splatz]

I agree. None of my ex-husbands girlfriends have stayed around long enough for me to meet yet though.

Quoting jltplk25:

Anyone that would be around my children like that, yeah I would want to meet.

[ambermario4ever]

yes if your kids are going to be around her a lot then you should meet her.

[misskb3006]

when you been with someone for a while , yes you feel hurt , but as a mom we often push past our feelings for our kids so meet her ,and feel her out for yourself , who knows you may like her

[erikadi]

I think you should go over. It is important to know who is in your children's life. It is weird even though you would never take them back you still feel hurt when they love someone new.

[Windowdove]

Yes, you should. I would.