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Overseas and missing the Great usa!

Posted by on Jul. 4, 2012 at 5:48 PM
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I miss the United states so much. We are a military family living in Italy. I feel so alone. I am a sahm(stay at home mom). My hubby is full time Active Navy. So some days I just enjoy visiting the area and teaching the kids history and enjoy trying new things, vacationing to other nearby countries. But, now the people I met when I first moved here all moved away. I have no friends here. I wish I could go home but its a long flight and we just used up time going to other countries we are saving to travel nearby. I wish I could go to Target and shop or buy something at walmart in the middle of the night when I just need something.

Anyone else living overseas? post living overseas in your 1st line.

Thanks for letting me vent. Desi

Posted by on Jul. 4, 2012 at 5:48 PM
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mom2gr8tgirls
by TattooedMichele on Jul. 4, 2012 at 6:33 PM

I've never lived overseas but I'm really close with my brother who's living in Okinawa right now.  He hates it.  DH and I also have close friends who have lived in Italy, they loved it.  But that was also before they had kids.  

mom2gr8tgirls
by TattooedMichele on Jul. 4, 2012 at 6:34 PM

Ooops, hit enter too soon.  Hope you find some friends soon!  Hugs!

delanna6two
by Platinum Member on Jul. 5, 2012 at 8:58 AM

Hugs....

Janet
by Platinum Member on Jul. 5, 2012 at 10:55 PM

 I'm sorry I know it has to be hard on you.

hugs

sebrinac
by on Jul. 5, 2012 at 11:12 PM

I remember feeling the same way when my husband was stationed in Germany.  I felt so bored and I didn't have kids! (they came later)  Thank goodness it only lasted for three years.  I can definitely relate.....If you ever need a listening ear, feel free to contact me! 

kaitybird
by on Jul. 6, 2012 at 3:26 AM

It is hard living overseas.  For the most part it is hard finding friends since they move around so frequently.  Once they leave it is hard finding new ones.  I loved getting out in the local economy.  We lived in Sicily for 3 years and Rota, Spain for 2 and I loved it.  I really miss the markets they had in Catania!  If they have a bus that goes to the markets sign up for one if you can.  They use to have them when we lived there but that was quite a few years ago.  I am sure you will find some new friends.  Have a get together with some of the people that your husband works with.  That was always a good way to meet new people too.  Good luck to you!

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