Although she's been in a committed relationship with her partner Laura for many years, Lisa had previously been married - to a man.
In this episode, Lisa explains what changed for her after her divorce, and how she came out to her family. Although they were accepting - as she'd anticipated- their reaction still surprised her! See why about halfway through the video.
Do you know anyone who came out after being in a heterosexual relationship first?
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I am miserably married and attracted to women. It's very difficult desiring women and your trapped in a relationship with a man. I have no sexual desires for a man anymore. I guess I have always been like this but trying to do the so called right thing as the bible says. I do love women and if I found the right one I am sure I'd be with her. Just could never find the right one and have settled for men. Wasn't a good idea. As I said now I am miserable and there are kids involved. Am not asking for advice. Just wanted to share.
This is a beautiful story, More and more women are finding connections with other women. Seems the connection is not there with men. They are just not emotionally there with you like a woman is. A woman cares and is concerned. It's a totally different relationship altogether than it is with a man. I am in this situation now. Married and just not feeling a thing towards men and definately not a sexual connection. Sex with a man sickens me. Men just don't understand and are very selfish when it comes to women's issues. I have looked forever for even just a good woman friend, Can't find her.
my bestfreind (RIP) her mother was married to a man for 12 yrs until he passed away from a heart disease. She has been a lesbian ever since, she says she will never love another man the way she did him.



- Cafe Amanda
on Jul. 18, 2012 at 1:07 PM