SOOO SO SO MAD!!! (at bio dad) moms with shared custody please give me an opinion
oooo soooo mad at biod dad... I have custody through out the school year and we split vacations in 2. he gets her 3 weekends per month.
he is staying with DD and i have to pick her up today, It got complicated due to nanny issues. I DO have someone to tkae care of DD just not her normal nanny, so i asked him if he'd be willling to have her over until friday. He said good thing you called because I need to take her to a wedding on saturday. ( he knoew my DD had a kids B day party tat same day) and I said yes. she could miss the bday party to go to the family wedding. so he sid OK, but you still have to pick her up today...
and then he went on, as to how unfair of me to make movments on the schedule we had agreed on, Calmly Itold him, I was jsut asking if he wanted her those days, but if not then I would GLADLY pick her up.
He said I had to pick her up today, but that he will stiull go and pick her up on saturday so she can go to the wedding.
I said ok, I will pick her up, but then, shes not going to the wedding. because it falls under my scheduled time, and if you're not willing to compromise, then I would be taking her to her Friends bday party WICH SHE AREADY CHOSE A PRESENT FOR. so he's mad, and said I have to go anyway because he will do NO favors for me. but that she WILL be going to the wedding. or else I couldnt pick her up until further noticed.. I am at work, so I ust camly said, Ill go pic her up later and well talk about it...... -_-
Hes mad, cause I messed with the schedule. I wa asking him for a favor. and it means he can be with her 3 more days, and he said no, but he still expects me to let her go on the day I already ahd plans...WELL HES CHANGING THE SCHEDULE RIGHT THERE!!!!! AND i WOULD HANO PROBLEM WITH, IT, BUT HIS ATTITUDE IS UUUUUUUUUGGGGGHHHHH
oh NO FUCKING WAY:::
VENT OVER.... well kind of.. still pissed. WHAt WOULD YOU LADIES DO??