Myself & My s/o do not live together.... Currently I am trying to move closer to him. We both lead our own lives because we are in 2 different cities but we talk and/or text every day with each other as well as interact with each other over facebook because we are in several groups with mutual friends.
SO heres the issue.... He get's instantly jealous when I communicate with other males on these pages (AS IF IT'S IN SECRET OR SOMETHING, LIKE REALLY UR RIGHT THERE WATCHING.SMH) Anyway, I said 4 words to someone(a guy) the other day and I get a text saying " I see you flirting"
My response: Really?
I mean I know that sometime I can be a flirt but I have toned it down so much that everytime I go to chat with someone I dont know what to say anymore because I think he may see and be offended. SO I end up being really cut and dry with people. The next day after the "warning" I come across him outright disrespectfully flirting with a woman. & of course I knew he did it on purpose but it still burned me up and I confronted him about it.
So now for two days were going back and fourth over what I feel is BS.... I could very well be expecting and this is pissing me off and I'm all emotional & crap. Mind you, I have already let this man know I am faithful (have never cheated on anyone in my life, I think it's pointless) I make and have made him aware of how much I love him and don't want or need to be with anbody else, but CLEARLY he doesn't trust me. I don't feel I have even given him reason to NOT trust me. I really think it's because of how women treated him in the past which he has told me about before. I have known him for 2 years and we have been together going on a year come this November.
It's discouraging to know he watches me like a hawk & to feel that he doesn't trust me hurts me. When we are together when ever we are able to visit with each other it's great, no issues, no arguments, no complications, just fun and love. Maybe it's the distance, maybe it's his past relationships bothering him, maybe he's being childish, IDK ..... Not enough to make me give up on US, but it's really gettin on my freakin nerves. Sometimes he acts like he is the only one who has ever been thru relationship problems. (pulling my hair out)